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In his book, “Too Soon old, Too late Smart, the author Dr Gordon Livingston, provides the reader with 30 essential truths. One of the 30 essential truths relates to “The statute of limitations has expired on most of our childhood traumas. No matter your past, change is the essence of life. In order to move forward in life we need to learn to live in the present.” (advancedlifeskills.com,)
We’d like to believe in the famous story/movie ending, “and they all lived happily ever after” . Unfortunately life is much more complicated than the make-believe world of Disney cartoons and movies. Whilst children eagerly watch embrace the afore-mentioned cartoons and movies, many of them are often scarred for life due to traumas suffered during childhood, i.e being raped by a family member, poverty, ill-treatment and/or abuse by parents.
There are numerous social problems which beset young children and often it sets the tone for the manner in which they will deal with life during adolescence and adulthood.
To assist the young ones to deal with these traumas, life orientation plays a pivitol role in school education. If not addressed, children, when entering the world of adulthood, willl feel trapped, lost and ill-equipped to face the challenges of adulthood.
The author on the other hands provides valuable advice. He encourages us to let go of the past– and uses the analogy of the statute of limitation to bring across his point. In this regard the statute of limitations is an enactment in a common law legal system which sets the maximum time after an event that legal proceedings based on the event may be initiated. One of the reasons for the statute of limitations is that people want to get on with their lives and not have legal battles from their past come up unexpectantly.
In order for us to move forward, and lead our best life, we need to find the courage to break free from those traumas of the past.
In conclusion, “It’s up to each of us to get very still and say, “This is who I am. No one else defines your life. Only you do.” – (The Best of Oprah’s ‘What I know for sure).
Monday, November 14, 2011
FELINE STUDY SUPPORT GROUP
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During a previous blog I made mention of our beloved housecat, Chubby, that passed away last year. It would be terribly unfair if I do not commit pen to paper with regard to our current housecat, Chaos, who has been with us for more than four years.
Chaos too has an interesting history relating to her arrival into our family home. It dates back to one Sunday morning when my son left the church service as he was totally distracted by the sound of the a cat – only to find a small abandoned kitten, approximately three weeks old. Bottle-feeds, lots of love and attention, skin cleansing treatment followed and the rest is history.
Whilst the previous cat loved boxes, Chaos loves the feel of books, magazines and newspapers. Anything worth reading becomes her resting/sleeping spot. My current study papers, my son’s as well as the study papers of a family member who stays with us during the week, are the ones she seeks out on a daily basis. We often jokingly refer to her passing the exams with distinction when we all graduate from our respective studies.
On the other hand, I believe her need to be up close and personal when we are reading or studying , is just an indication of the love she shares with all of us. We are indeed blessed to have her as housecat.
In conclusion, I'd like to pose the following question :
Did my son find her? or
Did she find my son? I leave it you to you, the reader to decide...
During a previous blog I made mention of our beloved housecat, Chubby, that passed away last year. It would be terribly unfair if I do not commit pen to paper with regard to our current housecat, Chaos, who has been with us for more than four years.
Chaos too has an interesting history relating to her arrival into our family home. It dates back to one Sunday morning when my son left the church service as he was totally distracted by the sound of the a cat – only to find a small abandoned kitten, approximately three weeks old. Bottle-feeds, lots of love and attention, skin cleansing treatment followed and the rest is history.
Whilst the previous cat loved boxes, Chaos loves the feel of books, magazines and newspapers. Anything worth reading becomes her resting/sleeping spot. My current study papers, my son’s as well as the study papers of a family member who stays with us during the week, are the ones she seeks out on a daily basis. We often jokingly refer to her passing the exams with distinction when we all graduate from our respective studies.
On the other hand, I believe her need to be up close and personal when we are reading or studying , is just an indication of the love she shares with all of us. We are indeed blessed to have her as housecat.
In conclusion, I'd like to pose the following question :
Did my son find her? or
Did she find my son? I leave it you to you, the reader to decide...
TABLE MOUNTAIN : WELCOME TO CAPE TOWN
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Within the next few days we will know whether Table Mountain has been voted as one of the 7 Wonders of the Natural World. Voting closes on 11 November 2011 and the announcement will be made that evening at 21h00. Table Mountain is one of 28 finalists and together with Kilimanjaro, they are the only two sites from Africa in the competition.
Table Mountain is a South African icon and the only natural site on the planet to have a constellation of stars named after it – Mensa, meaning “the table.” (www.new7wonders.com)
I firmly believe that Table Mountain is one of the world’s great wonderS – hence I have made my vote count many times over. Working in the city we bask in the magnificence of Table Mountain on a daily basis – it cannot be ignored, looming over the citizens of Cape Town and providing us with a spectacular view en-route to work.
As an accredited tourist guide a must-have photo opportunity for all schools doing the guided walking tour of Cape Town Station, is the one depicting Table Mountain in the background.
I believe that for thousands of years Table Mountain has given us more than what we have asked for:
• nature in its natural environment at its best
• Providing daily silent fashion advice (clear mountain = light clothes)
• Contributing tour health and wellness
• Providing a quiet, serene spiritual place
• Provides artistic and cultural inspiration
Table Mountain, situated in the heart of Cape Town - and with her impressive presence which stretches from Signal Hill as far as Cape Point - looks upon us with a message and song that echoes ‘Welcome to Cape Town’
Within the next few days we will know whether Table Mountain has been voted as one of the 7 Wonders of the Natural World. Voting closes on 11 November 2011 and the announcement will be made that evening at 21h00. Table Mountain is one of 28 finalists and together with Kilimanjaro, they are the only two sites from Africa in the competition.
Table Mountain is a South African icon and the only natural site on the planet to have a constellation of stars named after it – Mensa, meaning “the table.” (www.new7wonders.com)
I firmly believe that Table Mountain is one of the world’s great wonderS – hence I have made my vote count many times over. Working in the city we bask in the magnificence of Table Mountain on a daily basis – it cannot be ignored, looming over the citizens of Cape Town and providing us with a spectacular view en-route to work.
As an accredited tourist guide a must-have photo opportunity for all schools doing the guided walking tour of Cape Town Station, is the one depicting Table Mountain in the background.
I believe that for thousands of years Table Mountain has given us more than what we have asked for:
• nature in its natural environment at its best
• Providing daily silent fashion advice (clear mountain = light clothes)
• Contributing tour health and wellness
• Providing a quiet, serene spiritual place
• Provides artistic and cultural inspiration
Table Mountain, situated in the heart of Cape Town - and with her impressive presence which stretches from Signal Hill as far as Cape Point - looks upon us with a message and song that echoes ‘Welcome to Cape Town’
SANTA SHOEBOX FESTIVE SEASON GOODWILL
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On my way to work recently, I was intrigued by the early morning radio interview which encourage listeners to register for the Santa Shoebox. Immediately went online and selected two children for whom I had to prepare shoebox items.
I must admit that I have over the past few years contributed to shoebox items- but sadly, have neglected to ask probing questions as to the donations I provided.
Armed with Santa Shoebox shopping list, I was indeed impressed with the customer service and that staff at both Ackermans and Pep Stores in Belhar were aware of the project. They proudly informed me that their shoeboxes had already been dropped of the previous day.
On arrival at the delivery point in Gardens, I was once again blown away by the impressive administration and the friendly service from Santa Shoebox volunteers. And the rounds of spontaneous applause which erupted when Santa Shoeboxes were dropped of by the public.
Next year I will grows my contribution by more than 100%. I have already networked and lined up a few friends who will each contribute towards the Santa Shoebox project. I believe it is a project worthy of our support. You don’t need to have a lot of money to experience the spirit of giving .
The true spirit of giving requires that your gift comes from the heart and that you expect nothing in return. There is no expectation of anything in return and you simply get pleasure from knowing you have given someone a special gift that in some cases can change their lives. (www.christiandonor.com) The spirit of giving is reward enough for their efforts.
Against this background I hope that the two shoebox I have dropped off , will make a difference to the lives of to young learners in Cape Town. Come 2012 - In the spirit of giving, it is my endeavour to increase the shoebox donation by more than 100%
On my way to work recently, I was intrigued by the early morning radio interview which encourage listeners to register for the Santa Shoebox. Immediately went online and selected two children for whom I had to prepare shoebox items.
I must admit that I have over the past few years contributed to shoebox items- but sadly, have neglected to ask probing questions as to the donations I provided.
Armed with Santa Shoebox shopping list, I was indeed impressed with the customer service and that staff at both Ackermans and Pep Stores in Belhar were aware of the project. They proudly informed me that their shoeboxes had already been dropped of the previous day.
On arrival at the delivery point in Gardens, I was once again blown away by the impressive administration and the friendly service from Santa Shoebox volunteers. And the rounds of spontaneous applause which erupted when Santa Shoeboxes were dropped of by the public.
Next year I will grows my contribution by more than 100%. I have already networked and lined up a few friends who will each contribute towards the Santa Shoebox project. I believe it is a project worthy of our support. You don’t need to have a lot of money to experience the spirit of giving .
The true spirit of giving requires that your gift comes from the heart and that you expect nothing in return. There is no expectation of anything in return and you simply get pleasure from knowing you have given someone a special gift that in some cases can change their lives. (www.christiandonor.com) The spirit of giving is reward enough for their efforts.
Against this background I hope that the two shoebox I have dropped off , will make a difference to the lives of to young learners in Cape Town. Come 2012 - In the spirit of giving, it is my endeavour to increase the shoebox donation by more than 100%
PASSING ON THE TORCH
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This week’s blogs gets its inspiration from the phrase ‘passing the torch’.
We have all seen either on the news or in person the passign of the Olympic torch from one relay runner to the next until the torch is finally lit at the next Olympic site. The “passsing of the torch” is a pretty good metaphor for life. One generation must pass the torch to the next (www.unionchurch.com – Rev. Bruce Goettsche Series: Living with the Heart of God)
It is considered a great honour to be asked to light the Olympic Flame.
Our eldest son recently moved into his own home and in the process two beloved household items passed from one generation to another : a lounge suite and piano . Both items have been around for more than 30 and 25 years respectively. Although these two afore-mentioned items have been occupying space in the same house for more than 25 years, they have been separated by a distance of a few rooms since the beginning of time.
In their new surroundings they will however take up positions side by side, one providing musical sounds whilst the other provides comfortable seating capacity to those listening to the music emanating form the piano.
I can confirm that we already had the privilege of enjoying beautiful classical music in the comfort of newly refurbished lounge chairs. In today’s modern society where artists rely primarily on the use of keyboards, laptops and digitally enhanced music, it is indeed an honour to pass on from one generation to another, two household item – hence the reference to ‘passing of the torch’.
Whilst it may seem like the end of an era, I am confident that the passing of the torch spells the beginning of another journey allowing the next generation to build and create their own lasting memories.
This week’s blogs gets its inspiration from the phrase ‘passing the torch’.
We have all seen either on the news or in person the passign of the Olympic torch from one relay runner to the next until the torch is finally lit at the next Olympic site. The “passsing of the torch” is a pretty good metaphor for life. One generation must pass the torch to the next (www.unionchurch.com – Rev. Bruce Goettsche Series: Living with the Heart of God)
It is considered a great honour to be asked to light the Olympic Flame.
Our eldest son recently moved into his own home and in the process two beloved household items passed from one generation to another : a lounge suite and piano . Both items have been around for more than 30 and 25 years respectively. Although these two afore-mentioned items have been occupying space in the same house for more than 25 years, they have been separated by a distance of a few rooms since the beginning of time.
In their new surroundings they will however take up positions side by side, one providing musical sounds whilst the other provides comfortable seating capacity to those listening to the music emanating form the piano.
I can confirm that we already had the privilege of enjoying beautiful classical music in the comfort of newly refurbished lounge chairs. In today’s modern society where artists rely primarily on the use of keyboards, laptops and digitally enhanced music, it is indeed an honour to pass on from one generation to another, two household item – hence the reference to ‘passing of the torch’.
Whilst it may seem like the end of an era, I am confident that the passing of the torch spells the beginning of another journey allowing the next generation to build and create their own lasting memories.
MY BIG FAT BIG DREAM
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I believe that dreams are very important. It provides directions and purpose in life – something to hold onto and strive for.
My big fat BIG dream does not include wedding plans as those have been taken care of many years ago. Three family members will meet up in Austria. We will kick-start our tour of Europe by conducting a cultural tour of Austria - in particilar "The Sound of Music' tour.
This Big Fat Dream originated and started building up momentum after myself and two sisters found ourselves in Auckland doing a tour of the Northern Island.. This in turn led to a mutual agreement that in 2013 we would repeat the exercise by touring and visiting the hometime residence of the von Trapp family as in the movie, ‘The Sound of Music.’
My Big Fat Dream in this case resonates on two levels :
1. It is a big dream which has been cherished for a significant number of years and will continue until the arrival of departure date.
2. A fat wallet will be required to materialize the dream
Given the success of three- sister-alliance in 2009 where we met up and toured New Zealand, I believe our next Big Fat Dream of conducting ‘The Sound of Music’ heritage tour, will soon expand significantly in 2013 as we gear up towards the travel and tour planning packages.
Looking forward to saying BON VOYAGE when Big Fat Dream becomes a reality in 2013!
I believe that dreams are very important. It provides directions and purpose in life – something to hold onto and strive for.
My big fat BIG dream does not include wedding plans as those have been taken care of many years ago. Three family members will meet up in Austria. We will kick-start our tour of Europe by conducting a cultural tour of Austria - in particilar "The Sound of Music' tour.
This Big Fat Dream originated and started building up momentum after myself and two sisters found ourselves in Auckland doing a tour of the Northern Island.. This in turn led to a mutual agreement that in 2013 we would repeat the exercise by touring and visiting the hometime residence of the von Trapp family as in the movie, ‘The Sound of Music.’
My Big Fat Dream in this case resonates on two levels :
1. It is a big dream which has been cherished for a significant number of years and will continue until the arrival of departure date.
2. A fat wallet will be required to materialize the dream
Given the success of three- sister-alliance in 2009 where we met up and toured New Zealand, I believe our next Big Fat Dream of conducting ‘The Sound of Music’ heritage tour, will soon expand significantly in 2013 as we gear up towards the travel and tour planning packages.
Looking forward to saying BON VOYAGE when Big Fat Dream becomes a reality in 2013!
ONLY BAD THINGS HAPPEN QUICKLY
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Gordon Livingstone said, “Only bad things happen quickly. Virtually all the happiness- producing processes in our lives take time, usually a long time:
Learning new things;
Changing old behaviours;
Building satisfying relationships;
Raising children;
This is why patience and determination are among life’s primary virtues” (www.goodreads.com)
Against the background of the death of Michael Jackson and the subsequent recent guilty verdict against hismedical doctor, this is just but one example in which negligence plays a major role in bad things happening. Other examples are :
Negligence on the road leads to the quick death of innocent pedestrians;
Negligence by walking on the railway lines leads to a sudden death if struck by a train;
Negligence at level crossings leads to the death of innocent vehicle passengers.
Other example are substance abuse. Once exposed to, a person soon gets caught into the grips of the Methamphetamine (“Tik’) monster - resulting in theft, burglary and crime to sustain the substance abuse habits.
The above are but just a few examples where poor judgment and substance abuse ultimately leads to the setting for a terrible scene to unfold – rather quickly I might add.
Gordon Livingstone said, “Only bad things happen quickly. Virtually all the happiness- producing processes in our lives take time, usually a long time:
Learning new things;
Changing old behaviours;
Building satisfying relationships;
Raising children;
This is why patience and determination are among life’s primary virtues” (www.goodreads.com)
Against the background of the death of Michael Jackson and the subsequent recent guilty verdict against hismedical doctor, this is just but one example in which negligence plays a major role in bad things happening. Other examples are :
Negligence on the road leads to the quick death of innocent pedestrians;
Negligence by walking on the railway lines leads to a sudden death if struck by a train;
Negligence at level crossings leads to the death of innocent vehicle passengers.
Other example are substance abuse. Once exposed to, a person soon gets caught into the grips of the Methamphetamine (“Tik’) monster - resulting in theft, burglary and crime to sustain the substance abuse habits.
The above are but just a few examples where poor judgment and substance abuse ultimately leads to the setting for a terrible scene to unfold – rather quickly I might add.
BE BOLD AND MIGHTY FORCES WILL COME TO YOUR AID
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The title quote reminds me of another quote which refers to the fact that the timid/meek will not inherit the earth. My understanding of the title heading is that we have to take chances if we want to move forward and succeed in life.
- One has to be bold and :
- Make your voice/opinions heard
- Tackle the problem by the horns;
- Address the elephant in the room;
- Push the envelope;
- Do something that you’ve been putting off for a long time.
In doing so one not only shows courage and strength of character, it also paves the way for mighty forces to enter. In due time this bold investment will pay off – newly acquired confidence, heightened awareness of oneself .. . the list goes on.
The benefit of trying/being bold, is that it one has the opportunity to observe and evaluate the action as well as the reward/consequences. This in turn provides a sound foundation to build upon.
I’d like to conclude with another quotation, “If you really want to do something, you”ll find a way. If you don’t, you’ll find an excuse (Jim Rohn). So, be bold, take the first step and mighty things will come your way!.
The title quote reminds me of another quote which refers to the fact that the timid/meek will not inherit the earth. My understanding of the title heading is that we have to take chances if we want to move forward and succeed in life.
- One has to be bold and :
- Make your voice/opinions heard
- Tackle the problem by the horns;
- Address the elephant in the room;
- Push the envelope;
- Do something that you’ve been putting off for a long time.
In doing so one not only shows courage and strength of character, it also paves the way for mighty forces to enter. In due time this bold investment will pay off – newly acquired confidence, heightened awareness of oneself .. . the list goes on.
The benefit of trying/being bold, is that it one has the opportunity to observe and evaluate the action as well as the reward/consequences. This in turn provides a sound foundation to build upon.
I’d like to conclude with another quotation, “If you really want to do something, you”ll find a way. If you don’t, you’ll find an excuse (Jim Rohn). So, be bold, take the first step and mighty things will come your way!.
THE LAST LECTURE
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On September 18, 2007, Carnegie Mellon professor and alumnus Randy Pausch, who was dying of pancreatic cancer, delivered a one-of-a-kind last lecture that made the world stop and pay attention. It became an internet sensation viewed by millions, and international media story and a best-selling book that has been published in more than 35 languages – making it a favourite of kids, parents, teachers around the world. (www.cmu.edu/randyslecture/)
As we are nearing the end of a final BTech year, the last lecture by Randy Pausch, which teaches one how to really achieve your childhood dreams, comes to mind. For many a full-time student the study period of four years is over and they are ready to conquer the world – filled with dreams of making a difference in the workplace.
As a mature student I have long ago made my childhood dreams a reality. But that does not mean that other dreams do not crop up during one’s lifetime. As they do, they need to be nurtured and they too wait to be fulfilled. It is against this background that my last 2011 Communication Science lecture at CPUT holds the promise of being provided with the necessary knowledge, skills and leadership to go forth and achieve the following dream :
To successfully incorporate the walking guided tours of Cape Town Station into the excursion curriculum of primary schools. As per inspiration from the last lecture, the year 2012 awaits for the realization of this achievable dream.
On September 18, 2007, Carnegie Mellon professor and alumnus Randy Pausch, who was dying of pancreatic cancer, delivered a one-of-a-kind last lecture that made the world stop and pay attention. It became an internet sensation viewed by millions, and international media story and a best-selling book that has been published in more than 35 languages – making it a favourite of kids, parents, teachers around the world. (www.cmu.edu/randyslecture/)
As we are nearing the end of a final BTech year, the last lecture by Randy Pausch, which teaches one how to really achieve your childhood dreams, comes to mind. For many a full-time student the study period of four years is over and they are ready to conquer the world – filled with dreams of making a difference in the workplace.
As a mature student I have long ago made my childhood dreams a reality. But that does not mean that other dreams do not crop up during one’s lifetime. As they do, they need to be nurtured and they too wait to be fulfilled. It is against this background that my last 2011 Communication Science lecture at CPUT holds the promise of being provided with the necessary knowledge, skills and leadership to go forth and achieve the following dream :
To successfully incorporate the walking guided tours of Cape Town Station into the excursion curriculum of primary schools. As per inspiration from the last lecture, the year 2012 awaits for the realization of this achievable dream.
Sunday, November 13, 2011
WATCH THIS SPACE
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A previous blog this year alluded to the fact that the Edutrain, the unique classroom-on-wheels of Metrorail Western Cape, has been out of serve for the past three years. In another blog I made mentioned that “Blackie,’ the first locomotive to arrive in South Africa, has temporarily been removed from Cape Town Station.
With regard to the process to having the Edutrain undergo a complete general overhaul programme, and having it fully refurbished and returned to once again transport learners on educational excursions, indications are that the Edutrain will be fully operational by April 2012.
“Blackie’ was the first locomotive to arrive in South Africa and was used to construct the first railway line in the Western Cape. Due to the current refurbishment of Cape Town Station, Blackie was removed to a place of safekeeping. As in the case of the Edutrain, it is also anticipated that ‘Blackie’ will return by April 2012 to take up a new position in the Cape Town Station Forecourt.
It is with great anticipation that we look forward to the return of both the Edutrain and ‘Blackie’ respectively. 2012 holds much promise for learners as well as the tourists who will relisgh the opportunity to take photos of the first locomotive to arrive in South Africa in the late eighteen-fifties.
It is in this regard that we say: 'Watch this space …'
Photo of Blackie and Edutrain respectively.
A previous blog this year alluded to the fact that the Edutrain, the unique classroom-on-wheels of Metrorail Western Cape, has been out of serve for the past three years. In another blog I made mentioned that “Blackie,’ the first locomotive to arrive in South Africa, has temporarily been removed from Cape Town Station.
With regard to the process to having the Edutrain undergo a complete general overhaul programme, and having it fully refurbished and returned to once again transport learners on educational excursions, indications are that the Edutrain will be fully operational by April 2012.
“Blackie’ was the first locomotive to arrive in South Africa and was used to construct the first railway line in the Western Cape. Due to the current refurbishment of Cape Town Station, Blackie was removed to a place of safekeeping. As in the case of the Edutrain, it is also anticipated that ‘Blackie’ will return by April 2012 to take up a new position in the Cape Town Station Forecourt.
It is with great anticipation that we look forward to the return of both the Edutrain and ‘Blackie’ respectively. 2012 holds much promise for learners as well as the tourists who will relisgh the opportunity to take photos of the first locomotive to arrive in South Africa in the late eighteen-fifties.
It is in this regard that we say: 'Watch this space …'
Photo of Blackie and Edutrain respectively.
RUGBY WORLD CUP 2011: SOUTH AFRICAN ‘GEES’
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The last whistle of the 2011 Rugby World Cup has blown and New Zealand has been crowned the current holder of the Webb Ellis Trophy. For more than a month rugby became the main conversation all across the globe and thousands of rugby fans trekked thousands of kilometers to the North and South Islands of New Zealand..
One of the most outstanding features of the 2011 Rugby World Cup was the South African ‘Rugby Gees’. A memorable moment of the 2011 RWC was the banner displayed at the South African match in Wellington in the early stages with the following phrase, “My wife thinks I am in Bellville.” Classic humour, from the heart of a Capetonions following the South African team.
South Africans love their sport, are extremely knowledgeable and loyal to the respective sports codes they embrace. Rugby jerseys, flags, tattoos, headgear and all sorts of rugby paraphernalia were seen on television as well as on home soil during South African match days. Seeing the stadium filled with South African supporters and the powerful rendition of the National Anthem makes one realise once again how ‘Proudly South African’ we are.
Whether watching rugby games at home or at the respective stadiums in New Zealand, the message came across loud and clear : South Africans have the ‘gees.’
The last whistle of the 2011 Rugby World Cup has blown and New Zealand has been crowned the current holder of the Webb Ellis Trophy. For more than a month rugby became the main conversation all across the globe and thousands of rugby fans trekked thousands of kilometers to the North and South Islands of New Zealand..
One of the most outstanding features of the 2011 Rugby World Cup was the South African ‘Rugby Gees’. A memorable moment of the 2011 RWC was the banner displayed at the South African match in Wellington in the early stages with the following phrase, “My wife thinks I am in Bellville.” Classic humour, from the heart of a Capetonions following the South African team.
South Africans love their sport, are extremely knowledgeable and loyal to the respective sports codes they embrace. Rugby jerseys, flags, tattoos, headgear and all sorts of rugby paraphernalia were seen on television as well as on home soil during South African match days. Seeing the stadium filled with South African supporters and the powerful rendition of the National Anthem makes one realise once again how ‘Proudly South African’ we are.
Whether watching rugby games at home or at the respective stadiums in New Zealand, the message came across loud and clear : South Africans have the ‘gees.’
MY FAVOURITE CAT IN THE HAT BOOK / MY FAVOURITE CAT IN THE FAMILY BOOK
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The title of this week’s blog has me stumped for a six as I have never read any of the books, either as a child or read them to my children when they were young. Not having the time to read all the ‘Cat in the Hat’ books, I have opted to relate the story of my favourite cat in the family book.
Over the years our house has played host to many female cats who fancied our yard as a birthplace of choice. This resulted in quite a few occasions when we would find kittens who have been born in our yard. One such incidence stands out when a mother decided to make our home the place where she was going to give birth to her off-spring. In doing so she provided our house with lasting cat memories and the opportunity to love and be loved in return by an exceptional kitten/cat.
After nurturing mother and kittens, we found good homes for them, but opted to adopt the cutest of the litter, a fuzzy, bubbly feline we called ‘Chubby’. After being with us for more than eight years, Chubby sadly passed away last year following a short illness. During this period she took centre-stage in the household. Her quiet, beautiful nature made her a firm favourite with family and friends and she will always fondly be remembered for her :
- regal mannerism (my son often called her the princess)
- ongoing meowing conversations whilst her food was being prepared
- patiently waiting on the roof of the house for the youngest son to arrive back from school.
- Rolling around at ones feet in anticipation of a sock massage
- Love of a good old back rub and the accompanying purr of appreciation
- Purring sound which was a guaranteed stress reliever to household inhabitants, family and friends
- Her love of boxes – any box, whether big or small - became a target for her to jump in and out of and also served as a comfortable makeshift bed.
In addition to the above, Chubby shared with us a great animal love and we as a family were honoured to have known her for such lengthy period.
In conclusion, the following quote by Leonardo da Vinci, ‘The smallest feline is a masterpiece’ aptly describes our feline masterpiece, Chubby. Our fond memories of her still linger on, one year after her death.
The title of this week’s blog has me stumped for a six as I have never read any of the books, either as a child or read them to my children when they were young. Not having the time to read all the ‘Cat in the Hat’ books, I have opted to relate the story of my favourite cat in the family book.
Over the years our house has played host to many female cats who fancied our yard as a birthplace of choice. This resulted in quite a few occasions when we would find kittens who have been born in our yard. One such incidence stands out when a mother decided to make our home the place where she was going to give birth to her off-spring. In doing so she provided our house with lasting cat memories and the opportunity to love and be loved in return by an exceptional kitten/cat.
After nurturing mother and kittens, we found good homes for them, but opted to adopt the cutest of the litter, a fuzzy, bubbly feline we called ‘Chubby’. After being with us for more than eight years, Chubby sadly passed away last year following a short illness. During this period she took centre-stage in the household. Her quiet, beautiful nature made her a firm favourite with family and friends and she will always fondly be remembered for her :
- regal mannerism (my son often called her the princess)
- ongoing meowing conversations whilst her food was being prepared
- patiently waiting on the roof of the house for the youngest son to arrive back from school.
- Rolling around at ones feet in anticipation of a sock massage
- Love of a good old back rub and the accompanying purr of appreciation
- Purring sound which was a guaranteed stress reliever to household inhabitants, family and friends
- Her love of boxes – any box, whether big or small - became a target for her to jump in and out of and also served as a comfortable makeshift bed.
In addition to the above, Chubby shared with us a great animal love and we as a family were honoured to have known her for such lengthy period.
In conclusion, the following quote by Leonardo da Vinci, ‘The smallest feline is a masterpiece’ aptly describes our feline masterpiece, Chubby. Our fond memories of her still linger on, one year after her death.
WHY I HAVE CONVERSATIONS
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I believe that Miles Franklin, the Australian writer sums it up beautifully in the following quotation, “Someone to tell it to is one of the fundamental needs of human beings.”
I share the sentiments of the afore-mentioned quotation and to this end I must confess that I enjoy being a part of and contributing to conversations whether at home, work, commuting to and from work, being with family and friends, etc. I believe there is always something of interest to share with others, be it good or sad news. On the other hand, listening to others is also key to successful two-way conversations.
As part of my current studies, I have this year been introduced to a totally new social media conversation -Twitter and Facebook. It has often been said that I have taken to Twitter like a fish in water. I find the online conversations, whether by those I follow or my followers, interesting, up to date, informative and it keeps me abreast with the latest, real-time information. I enjoy participating in online conversations, especially in topics “now streaming in Cape Town” i.e #TableMountain, #Coldplay, etc . Upon reaching the 1000th tweet, it has however not put a stop to my online conversation. As a matter of fact the online conversations into 2012 and beyond has just begun!.
In conclusion, the words of John Milton, the English poet, sums up why I and thousands others love conversations, whether face to face or online :
‘With thee conversing, I forget all time.”
I believe that Miles Franklin, the Australian writer sums it up beautifully in the following quotation, “Someone to tell it to is one of the fundamental needs of human beings.”
I share the sentiments of the afore-mentioned quotation and to this end I must confess that I enjoy being a part of and contributing to conversations whether at home, work, commuting to and from work, being with family and friends, etc. I believe there is always something of interest to share with others, be it good or sad news. On the other hand, listening to others is also key to successful two-way conversations.
As part of my current studies, I have this year been introduced to a totally new social media conversation -Twitter and Facebook. It has often been said that I have taken to Twitter like a fish in water. I find the online conversations, whether by those I follow or my followers, interesting, up to date, informative and it keeps me abreast with the latest, real-time information. I enjoy participating in online conversations, especially in topics “now streaming in Cape Town” i.e #TableMountain, #Coldplay, etc . Upon reaching the 1000th tweet, it has however not put a stop to my online conversation. As a matter of fact the online conversations into 2012 and beyond has just begun!.
In conclusion, the words of John Milton, the English poet, sums up why I and thousands others love conversations, whether face to face or online :
‘With thee conversing, I forget all time.”
BUCKET LIST : 100 THINGS TO DO BEFORE I DIE
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I must confess that my bucket list does not have nearly as much as 100 items required as per the title of the blog. There are however a few items that I have mentioned and shared with family and friends, i.e I have penciled in 2014 as the bucket list date to conduct - together with my two sisters - a ‘Sound of Music Tour’ in Austria. Currently this is the most ambitious item on the bucket list.
Other items, whilst not as ambitious as the afore-mentioned, are cherished and nurtured and I am looking forward to completing and ticking them off line item by line item. Herewith some of the bucket list items :
• Undertake a Sound of Music Tour in Austria
• Travel through Europe by Rail
• Visit the Interlaken, Switzerland, Railway Museum
• Visit cousin in Germany
• Visit sister in New Zealand
• Resume dance classes (which I stopped with more than 20 years ago.)
• Complete BTech Degree
• Complete MTech Degree
• Start Art Classes
• Do voluntary work for charity organization, i.e Santa Shoebox
• Buy and live in a double story wooden house in area surrounded by forest (Garden Route) with sounds of nearby river and birds providing musical backdrop
• Seriously consider various request by family and friends to write a book about my educational/career journey – with emphasis on ‘How I met Themba Edutrain’
Although the above provides insight into the list of things I wish to accomplish before I am laid down to rest, most importantly, top of my bucket list is good health, financial stability and the opportunity to systematically work through and successfully realise as many items as possible on the afore-mentioned bucket list.
I must confess that my bucket list does not have nearly as much as 100 items required as per the title of the blog. There are however a few items that I have mentioned and shared with family and friends, i.e I have penciled in 2014 as the bucket list date to conduct - together with my two sisters - a ‘Sound of Music Tour’ in Austria. Currently this is the most ambitious item on the bucket list.
Other items, whilst not as ambitious as the afore-mentioned, are cherished and nurtured and I am looking forward to completing and ticking them off line item by line item. Herewith some of the bucket list items :
• Undertake a Sound of Music Tour in Austria
• Travel through Europe by Rail
• Visit the Interlaken, Switzerland, Railway Museum
• Visit cousin in Germany
• Visit sister in New Zealand
• Resume dance classes (which I stopped with more than 20 years ago.)
• Complete BTech Degree
• Complete MTech Degree
• Start Art Classes
• Do voluntary work for charity organization, i.e Santa Shoebox
• Buy and live in a double story wooden house in area surrounded by forest (Garden Route) with sounds of nearby river and birds providing musical backdrop
• Seriously consider various request by family and friends to write a book about my educational/career journey – with emphasis on ‘How I met Themba Edutrain’
Although the above provides insight into the list of things I wish to accomplish before I am laid down to rest, most importantly, top of my bucket list is good health, financial stability and the opportunity to systematically work through and successfully realise as many items as possible on the afore-mentioned bucket list.
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
FEED THE BIRDS (BELHAR BIRDS)
#SMED 11
Earlier this year I started a Sunday morning ritual of providing breadcrumbs to the birds and in the process it provided for much fun and laughter as well as a bird educational from my grandstand kitchen window view.
In addition to getting to know some regular bird appearances, it also creates the opportunity for Sunday morning visitors to partake in feeding the birds. Breadcrumbs and rice remain firm favourites. It might be my imagination, but I often get the impression that the birds somehow know that it is Sunday. I’ve noticed them twittering away in a tree close their feeding ground - within minutes of me placing the breadcrumbs on the ground, they put in a musical appearance.
Whilst they are twittering away, I too join in by belting out the Mary Poppins song, ‘ Feed the Birds”
On the other hand, this feeding programme remains a finely balancing act as we also have a cat whose food bowl, whilst indoors, is in close proximity to the feeding ground of the birds. It however allows for much amusement though as she keeps a watchful eye on the feeding procedures. Despite producing some strange cat sounds (which is reserved for birds only), needless to say, to date she has been the perfect hostess and allows them free reign of the backyard.
I wonder if I can take credit for a cat that is well trained? Probably not. We all know that have a mind of their own. They do as they please. Will just have to ensure she is well-fed prior to feeding the birds.
In conclusion, herewith the lyrics of the popular Mary Poppins song, Feed the birds - twitter away!
Early each day to the steps of Saint Paul’s
The little old bird woman comes
In her own special way to the people she call,
Come, buy my bags full of crumbs,
Come feed the little birds,
Show them you care
And you’ll be glad if you do
Their young ones are hungry
Their nests are so bare
All it takes is tuppence from you
Feed the birds, tuppence a bag
Feed the birds , that’s what she cries
While overhead, her birds fill the skies.
Earlier this year I started a Sunday morning ritual of providing breadcrumbs to the birds and in the process it provided for much fun and laughter as well as a bird educational from my grandstand kitchen window view.
In addition to getting to know some regular bird appearances, it also creates the opportunity for Sunday morning visitors to partake in feeding the birds. Breadcrumbs and rice remain firm favourites. It might be my imagination, but I often get the impression that the birds somehow know that it is Sunday. I’ve noticed them twittering away in a tree close their feeding ground - within minutes of me placing the breadcrumbs on the ground, they put in a musical appearance.
Whilst they are twittering away, I too join in by belting out the Mary Poppins song, ‘ Feed the Birds”
On the other hand, this feeding programme remains a finely balancing act as we also have a cat whose food bowl, whilst indoors, is in close proximity to the feeding ground of the birds. It however allows for much amusement though as she keeps a watchful eye on the feeding procedures. Despite producing some strange cat sounds (which is reserved for birds only), needless to say, to date she has been the perfect hostess and allows them free reign of the backyard.
I wonder if I can take credit for a cat that is well trained? Probably not. We all know that have a mind of their own. They do as they please. Will just have to ensure she is well-fed prior to feeding the birds.
In conclusion, herewith the lyrics of the popular Mary Poppins song, Feed the birds - twitter away!
Early each day to the steps of Saint Paul’s
The little old bird woman comes
In her own special way to the people she call,
Come, buy my bags full of crumbs,
Come feed the little birds,
Show them you care
And you’ll be glad if you do
Their young ones are hungry
Their nests are so bare
All it takes is tuppence from you
Feed the birds, tuppence a bag
Feed the birds , that’s what she cries
While overhead, her birds fill the skies.
ROCK GIRL BENCH
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I recently had the opportunity to engage with stakeholders with regard to the feasibility of placing a bench at the Cape Town Station Forecourt. Assuming discussions centered around an ordinary bench, I found the idea very interesting and thought it would be a welcome addition to the recently refurbished Cape Town Station.
I also liked the idea of the bench being a talking point for learners whilst on the walking guided tour of Cape Town Station. I must admit that my assumptions with regard to the look and feel of the bench was however way off the mark. We are not talking about an ordinary bench - a pleasant surprise awaited me when I received a photo an article which introduced me to the Rock Girl Benches.
“Rock Girl, an organization founded by a group of concerned women who seek to focus the spotlight on the challenges facing girls and women in South Africa, has launched its first campaign – the Safe Spaces Initiative. The campaign is aimed at focusing on increasing the environments where South African girls and women can feel safe – by planting benches in Cape Town that offer a real and symbolic feeling of safety and a freedom from anxiety.”(City Views, April 2011)
The idea of the benches originated at a primary school in Mannenberg when girls mentioned their vulnerability in some public places. In addition to having a beautiful artistic look and feel, the educational messages etched on the bench provides and excellent opportunity for educational awareness and discussions:
- Speak out what you see
- Creating safe spaces
- Reaching out for each other
It is anticipated that the Rock Girl bench, which is sponsored by Cape Town Partnership, will be unveiled at Cape Town Station during the first week of December – to coincide with the annual 16 Days of Activism Campaign. This campaign focuses on violence against women and children and is annually celebrated in South Africa between 25 November and 10 December.
I am looking forward to the unveiling of this new artistic educational facility which will also be included in the
walking guided tours of Cape Town Station. Many learner discussions and photo opportunities await in the near future – cannot wait for 2012 for learner photos to be posted in future blogs!
I recently had the opportunity to engage with stakeholders with regard to the feasibility of placing a bench at the Cape Town Station Forecourt. Assuming discussions centered around an ordinary bench, I found the idea very interesting and thought it would be a welcome addition to the recently refurbished Cape Town Station.
I also liked the idea of the bench being a talking point for learners whilst on the walking guided tour of Cape Town Station. I must admit that my assumptions with regard to the look and feel of the bench was however way off the mark. We are not talking about an ordinary bench - a pleasant surprise awaited me when I received a photo an article which introduced me to the Rock Girl Benches.
“Rock Girl, an organization founded by a group of concerned women who seek to focus the spotlight on the challenges facing girls and women in South Africa, has launched its first campaign – the Safe Spaces Initiative. The campaign is aimed at focusing on increasing the environments where South African girls and women can feel safe – by planting benches in Cape Town that offer a real and symbolic feeling of safety and a freedom from anxiety.”(City Views, April 2011)
The idea of the benches originated at a primary school in Mannenberg when girls mentioned their vulnerability in some public places. In addition to having a beautiful artistic look and feel, the educational messages etched on the bench provides and excellent opportunity for educational awareness and discussions:
- Speak out what you see
- Creating safe spaces
- Reaching out for each other
It is anticipated that the Rock Girl bench, which is sponsored by Cape Town Partnership, will be unveiled at Cape Town Station during the first week of December – to coincide with the annual 16 Days of Activism Campaign. This campaign focuses on violence against women and children and is annually celebrated in South Africa between 25 November and 10 December.
I am looking forward to the unveiling of this new artistic educational facility which will also be included in the
walking guided tours of Cape Town Station. Many learner discussions and photo opportunities await in the near future – cannot wait for 2012 for learner photos to be posted in future blogs!
Monday, August 15, 2011
PATIENTLY AWAITING WEDDING INVITATION
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Whilst waiting for an early morning train last week, a few mature female commuters reminised about the changes in the economy and how difficult it is for the younger generation to obtain their own property.
The topic however which generated the most animated discussion, was the lack of weddings. A quick informal survey amongst ourselves indicated an average of two wedding invitations for the past six years. Interestingly, the same topic surfaced in our neighbourhood recently whereby a few mothers also expressed changing tiimes in that their children - who are of perceived marriagable age, were in most instances not choosing marriage as an option.
We were in agreement that the knock-on-effect of the lack of marriages amongst young adults, further resulted in a reduction of grandchildren. Additional informal reseach amongst colleagues and friends provided similar results - an observation that the younger generation is leading a far more different lifestyle - with a strong focus on education, career development,travelling to mention a few.
Against this background, it seems as if the neghbourhood moms and station commuter chat group will patiently have to wait for the all-elusive wedding invitation. In the meantime we will have to be satisfied with watching reality programmes on weddings and/or paging through wedding spreads in magazines.
In conclusion, when the wedding invitation arrives: As befits the occasion, I am looking forward to donning a couture outfit with matching hat and/or fastenator - with the followiing 'My FairLady' song waiting to come to fruition:
'I'm getting married in the morning,
Ding , dong the bells are gonna chime,
Pull out a stopper,
Let's have a whopper,
But get me to the church on time'.
Tongue in cheeck: Now only if the invitation 'to the church on time' could come along in the post!
Whilst waiting for an early morning train last week, a few mature female commuters reminised about the changes in the economy and how difficult it is for the younger generation to obtain their own property.
The topic however which generated the most animated discussion, was the lack of weddings. A quick informal survey amongst ourselves indicated an average of two wedding invitations for the past six years. Interestingly, the same topic surfaced in our neighbourhood recently whereby a few mothers also expressed changing tiimes in that their children - who are of perceived marriagable age, were in most instances not choosing marriage as an option.
We were in agreement that the knock-on-effect of the lack of marriages amongst young adults, further resulted in a reduction of grandchildren. Additional informal reseach amongst colleagues and friends provided similar results - an observation that the younger generation is leading a far more different lifestyle - with a strong focus on education, career development,travelling to mention a few.
Against this background, it seems as if the neghbourhood moms and station commuter chat group will patiently have to wait for the all-elusive wedding invitation. In the meantime we will have to be satisfied with watching reality programmes on weddings and/or paging through wedding spreads in magazines.
In conclusion, when the wedding invitation arrives: As befits the occasion, I am looking forward to donning a couture outfit with matching hat and/or fastenator - with the followiing 'My FairLady' song waiting to come to fruition:
'I'm getting married in the morning,
Ding , dong the bells are gonna chime,
Pull out a stopper,
Let's have a whopper,
But get me to the church on time'.
Tongue in cheeck: Now only if the invitation 'to the church on time' could come along in the post!
Monday, August 8, 2011
DON'T TELL ME YOU LOVE ME - SHOW ME
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National Women’s Day celebrates our women in South Africa as this day commemorates 9 August 1956 when women participating in a national march petitioned against pass laws. This was legislation that required African persons to carry a document on them to ‘prove’ that they were allowed to enter a ‘white area’. http://www.capetownmagazine.com/events/Womens-Day-South-Africa-2007/2007-08-09/11_37_2677
Against this background I have selected the month of August to honour a few women who have inspired not only myself, but who have played a key role in the lives of those close to us.
This week’s blog draws inspiration from an e-mail I received last week in which a close family friend outlined in detail the nature and impact of his mother’s illness following a recent stroke. Without going into detail, one could not help but to be moved by the poignant manner in which the letter was written.
The line that stood out for me was that his mother always says, ‘don’t tell me you love me – show me’ Powerful words indeed . It reminds me that in many instances parents worked long hours, made huge sacrifices and often went without essentials to ensure their children received a sound education and solid upbringing. Once children have spread their wings, have their own circle of family and friends and lead their own lives, a phone call or sms can never replace quality time spent with one’s parents.
It is up to us to show the love. Spend time, buy flowers, take them for walks, shopping, a drive or to the movies. There are numerous, inexpensive ways, in which we can show our parents that we love them.
In conclusion, whilst National Women’s Day will be celebrated throughout South Africa and played out on radio and other broadcast media, we should not forget that it is those small gestures that counts – showing the women in our lives that we love them. Not only on Mother’s Day and Women’s Day - but for the remainder of the 365 days of the year. Most most importantly, showing love, does not cost a fortune - 'once given it fills the soul with song'.
HAVE YOU FIGURED OUT THE SECOND HEAD FAKE?
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Carnegie Mellon Professor Randy Pausch (Oct. 23, 1960 -- July 25, 2008) gave his last lecture at the university Sept. 18, 2007, before a packed McConomy Auditorium. In his moving presentation, “Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams,” Pausch talked about his lessons learned and gave advice to students on how to achieve their own career and personal goals.
At the time of this lecture in September 2007, Randy had been given six months to live. He died of pancreatic cancer in July 2008. http://www.conradaskland.com/blog/2008/11/randy-pausch-last-lecture-achieving-your-childhood-dreams/
The last lecture was filled with memorable quotations i.e
• Most of what we learn, we learn indirectly (or by “head fake”).
• The best way to “head fake” someone in education, is to have them learn
something while they think they are learning something else.
• The final “head fake” of this entire lecture: This lecture is not about how
to achieve your dreams, it’s about how to lead your life. If you lead your
life the right way, the karma will take care of itself, the dreams will
come to you.
• Have you figured out the second head fake? This talk is not for you, it’s
for my kids…
Taking into account the various mentions of “head fakes” it made me ponder about the real purpose of our social media lectures and the weekly assignments in which we have to produce two blogs per week.
I’d like to believe that I’ve figured out our lecturer's “head fake” which to me is indirect learning :
These weekly blogs are not at all about developing our writing skills – the real lesson (or ‘head fake’) here is that in doing so, it opens up a whole new online world ranging from researching topics, growth in personal knowledge as well as developing our online marketing and communication skills.
To give substance to my argument, I am confident that only a handful of students knew about Randy Pausch’s last lecture. Whilst the topic initially sounds baffling, online research opens a world of knowledge and informed blog writing.
I believe I also figured out the second 'head fake'. The blogs are not about me, writing skills, learning and growth. It’s about spending time with, observing and writing about family, friends, anything and everything . There’s a world out there waiting to be scripted and we are the word architects. I might be a long way from becoming a blockbuster writer, but writing blogs has given me the opportunity to channel new-found creativity – finding my inner Shakespeare!
In conclusion, whilst the topic is open to various interpretation, on a personal level the ‘have you figured out the second head fake’ represents the multitude of opportunities linked to studying social media.
I cannot wait for the next sports event, function or family get-together. I don’t know what it will be, but the topic of a subsequent blog will present itself. So confident am I – because I’ve figured out the second head fake !
Carnegie Mellon Professor Randy Pausch (Oct. 23, 1960 -- July 25, 2008) gave his last lecture at the university Sept. 18, 2007, before a packed McConomy Auditorium. In his moving presentation, “Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams,” Pausch talked about his lessons learned and gave advice to students on how to achieve their own career and personal goals.
At the time of this lecture in September 2007, Randy had been given six months to live. He died of pancreatic cancer in July 2008. http://www.conradaskland.com/blog/2008/11/randy-pausch-last-lecture-achieving-your-childhood-dreams/
The last lecture was filled with memorable quotations i.e
• Most of what we learn, we learn indirectly (or by “head fake”).
• The best way to “head fake” someone in education, is to have them learn
something while they think they are learning something else.
• The final “head fake” of this entire lecture: This lecture is not about how
to achieve your dreams, it’s about how to lead your life. If you lead your
life the right way, the karma will take care of itself, the dreams will
come to you.
• Have you figured out the second head fake? This talk is not for you, it’s
for my kids…
Taking into account the various mentions of “head fakes” it made me ponder about the real purpose of our social media lectures and the weekly assignments in which we have to produce two blogs per week.
I’d like to believe that I’ve figured out our lecturer's “head fake” which to me is indirect learning :
These weekly blogs are not at all about developing our writing skills – the real lesson (or ‘head fake’) here is that in doing so, it opens up a whole new online world ranging from researching topics, growth in personal knowledge as well as developing our online marketing and communication skills.
To give substance to my argument, I am confident that only a handful of students knew about Randy Pausch’s last lecture. Whilst the topic initially sounds baffling, online research opens a world of knowledge and informed blog writing.
I believe I also figured out the second 'head fake'. The blogs are not about me, writing skills, learning and growth. It’s about spending time with, observing and writing about family, friends, anything and everything . There’s a world out there waiting to be scripted and we are the word architects. I might be a long way from becoming a blockbuster writer, but writing blogs has given me the opportunity to channel new-found creativity – finding my inner Shakespeare!
In conclusion, whilst the topic is open to various interpretation, on a personal level the ‘have you figured out the second head fake’ represents the multitude of opportunities linked to studying social media.
I cannot wait for the next sports event, function or family get-together. I don’t know what it will be, but the topic of a subsequent blog will present itself. So confident am I – because I’ve figured out the second head fake !
Monday, August 1, 2011
'GOOD LUCK' AND 'WELL DONE'
# SMED 11
During the past weekend I spent a significant number of hours screaming and shouting at the Grandwest Grand Arena, whilst attending the Backstage Pass High School Jam. The numerous tweets posted and facebook entries allude to the fact that I was a proud mom and staunch supporter of both Settlers and Pinelands High School.
The competition brief was that 10 pre-selected school had to provide musical entertainment for 20 minutes on stage. The Grand Arena was rocking to the vide of orchestras, choirs and the two master of ceremonies had the audience in the palm of their hands. The finals on Sunday consisted of Settlers, Pinelands and Milnerton High School with Milnerton High School walking away with the winning trophy and a grand prize of R30 000.00
Aside the high quality performances, what stood out for me most about the two-day competition, was the spirit and vibe as the audience egged on their respective schools. It sounded more as if we were attending a sporting event with vuvuzelas, banners, flags and all manner of ‘noise makers’ used to bring out the loudest cheers.
The spirit of Settlers High learners became the talking point of the competition and they walked away with the Spirit Award worth R20 000. All participating schools were met by strong vocals of ‘Good Luck’ prior to the on-stage performance and ‘Well done’ at the end of each performance.
I must admit that it has been five years since I last attended school sports days and/or musical events. The cheering brought back memories of yonder years and I could still vividly remember the team spirit exibited at the annual contact with Fairmont High School. As a proud ex-parent of Setters High School, I fully agree that on Saturday and Sunday their learners lived up to the 2011 motto ‘Exercising Excellence’ - not only on stage, but also relating to crowd participation. Four words 'Good Luck' and 'Well Done' speak volumes about the values and ethos instilled in learners.
Congratulations to the principal, Mr Smuts and the team of excellent music students – thank you for bringing musical and crowd participative excellence to the Grand Arena.
I remain a Proudly ex-Settlers High School parent.
PS: A follow-up blog will be posted relating to Pinelands High School
During the past weekend I spent a significant number of hours screaming and shouting at the Grandwest Grand Arena, whilst attending the Backstage Pass High School Jam. The numerous tweets posted and facebook entries allude to the fact that I was a proud mom and staunch supporter of both Settlers and Pinelands High School.
The competition brief was that 10 pre-selected school had to provide musical entertainment for 20 minutes on stage. The Grand Arena was rocking to the vide of orchestras, choirs and the two master of ceremonies had the audience in the palm of their hands. The finals on Sunday consisted of Settlers, Pinelands and Milnerton High School with Milnerton High School walking away with the winning trophy and a grand prize of R30 000.00
Aside the high quality performances, what stood out for me most about the two-day competition, was the spirit and vibe as the audience egged on their respective schools. It sounded more as if we were attending a sporting event with vuvuzelas, banners, flags and all manner of ‘noise makers’ used to bring out the loudest cheers.
The spirit of Settlers High learners became the talking point of the competition and they walked away with the Spirit Award worth R20 000. All participating schools were met by strong vocals of ‘Good Luck’ prior to the on-stage performance and ‘Well done’ at the end of each performance.
I must admit that it has been five years since I last attended school sports days and/or musical events. The cheering brought back memories of yonder years and I could still vividly remember the team spirit exibited at the annual contact with Fairmont High School. As a proud ex-parent of Setters High School, I fully agree that on Saturday and Sunday their learners lived up to the 2011 motto ‘Exercising Excellence’ - not only on stage, but also relating to crowd participation. Four words 'Good Luck' and 'Well Done' speak volumes about the values and ethos instilled in learners.
Congratulations to the principal, Mr Smuts and the team of excellent music students – thank you for bringing musical and crowd participative excellence to the Grand Arena.
I remain a Proudly ex-Settlers High School parent.
PS: A follow-up blog will be posted relating to Pinelands High School
HOW HARD IS IT TO FOLLOW INSTRUCTIONS?
#SMED11
The following quotation which I found online, beautifully summarises today’s blog :
“A minister asked a little boy how to get to the Post Office. After the little boy told him, the minister said, Why don't you come to church tonight? I'm giving instructions on how to get to heaven. After thinking a minute, the boy replied, I don't think so. You don't even know how to get to the Post Office.” - http://thinkexist.com/quotes/with/keyword/instructions/
I believe following instructions is a two-way process which includes the sender and the receiver of the instruction. From a theoretical point of view, instructions should be clear, concise, unambiguous and directed with the target audience in mind. The KISS theory (keep it simple, stupid) is of the utmost importance.
Life is made up and on a daily basis we are surrounded by instructions at various levels. The ‘How to” list is endless :
- How to cook the perfect lasagna
- How to assemble the kitchen cupboard
- How to change a flat tyre
- How to wash and iron woolen garments
- How to read a road map to get from point A to point B
In most cases, if one wants the desired outcomes, it is expected of us to follow instructions to the letter. If not, there can be various consequences ranging from the ridiculous to the more serious :
- Ending with flaming green hair instead of blond for following incorrect hair-dye instructions
- Being suspended and/or losing one’s job for not following work instructions or the detailed operating procedures
On the other hand, ‘‘discoveries are often made by not following instructions, by going off the main road, by trying the untried.” – Frank Tyger. Here, particularly artists come to mind.
Many a married women would agree with my analogy that the following quotation has been written with husbands in mind - especially relating to kitchen appliance instructions: “If everything else fails, read the instructions.”
In conclusion, how often have we not wondered how hard is it for guest speakers to understand and implement the following instruction: "Be sincere; be brief; be seated.”
The following quotation which I found online, beautifully summarises today’s blog :
“A minister asked a little boy how to get to the Post Office. After the little boy told him, the minister said, Why don't you come to church tonight? I'm giving instructions on how to get to heaven. After thinking a minute, the boy replied, I don't think so. You don't even know how to get to the Post Office.” - http://thinkexist.com/quotes/with/keyword/instructions/
I believe following instructions is a two-way process which includes the sender and the receiver of the instruction. From a theoretical point of view, instructions should be clear, concise, unambiguous and directed with the target audience in mind. The KISS theory (keep it simple, stupid) is of the utmost importance.
Life is made up and on a daily basis we are surrounded by instructions at various levels. The ‘How to” list is endless :
- How to cook the perfect lasagna
- How to assemble the kitchen cupboard
- How to change a flat tyre
- How to wash and iron woolen garments
- How to read a road map to get from point A to point B
In most cases, if one wants the desired outcomes, it is expected of us to follow instructions to the letter. If not, there can be various consequences ranging from the ridiculous to the more serious :
- Ending with flaming green hair instead of blond for following incorrect hair-dye instructions
- Being suspended and/or losing one’s job for not following work instructions or the detailed operating procedures
On the other hand, ‘‘discoveries are often made by not following instructions, by going off the main road, by trying the untried.” – Frank Tyger. Here, particularly artists come to mind.
Many a married women would agree with my analogy that the following quotation has been written with husbands in mind - especially relating to kitchen appliance instructions: “If everything else fails, read the instructions.”
In conclusion, how often have we not wondered how hard is it for guest speakers to understand and implement the following instruction: "Be sincere; be brief; be seated.”
Monday, July 25, 2011
THERE'S JUST NO PLACE LIKE CAPE TOWN
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During the past weekend I had the opportunity to attend a presentation where the speaker highlighted to high school learners the beauty and splendour of Cape Town as a tourist destination.
This morning one of my staff members rushed into my office and excitedly requested that I come to their side of the office to view the rainbow etched against Table Mountain. From our 5th floor vantage point we had a clear, uninhibited view of others taking photos of a magnificent Table Mountain bathed in early morning winter clouds and serving as a backdrop to a beautiful rainbow.
Cameras were clicking away furiously to capture the sight to behold and tweets were siumultaneously sent and received informing followers to view the picture perfect moment. Needlees to say, office work took a back seat as we took in the view of Table Mountain. We all heaved a sigh when the rainbow disappeared and were in unison with our appreciation and the privilege of having our offices within sight of Table Mountain.
All this excitement brought back memories of the Southern Line Tourism Route training I did for Metrorail staff prior to the 2010 Soccer World Cup. Courtesy Cape Town Tourism, herewith an extract from my power point presentation, which showcases why Cape Town is one of the leading places to visit:
CAPE TOWN: 2ND BEST CITY IN THE WORLD - US TRAVEL AND LEISURE, JULY 2009
CAPE TOWN: WORLD'S BEST ENTERTAINMENT/LIFESTYLE DESTINATION, LUXURY TRAVEL AWARDS, APRIL 2009
CAPE TOWN: BEST TOURISM INVESTOR CITY OF THE YEAR, AI TOURISM INVESTOR AWARDS 2009
CAPE TOWN: FAVOURITE WORLD CITY, UK TELEGRAPH NOVEMBER 2008
CAPE TOWN: 4TH TOP CITY IN THE WORLD - CONDENAST READERS' CHOICE OCTOBER 2008
CAPE TOWN: 3RD BEST CITY IN THE WORLD, US TRAVEL AND LEISURE JULY 2008
CAPE TOWN: BEST CITY IN AFRICA & MIDDLE EAST - US TRAVEL AND LEISURE JULY 2008, 2009
CAPE TOWN: 3RD BEST CITY IN THE TOP 10 WORLD FOOD CITIES - LONELY PLANET BLUE LIST JULY 2008
CAPE TOWN: ONE OF THE “PLACES OF A LIFETIME” – NATIONAL GEOGRAPHIC TRAVELER JULY 2008
CAPE TOWN: BEST DESTINATION, AFRICA - WORLD TRAVEL AWARDS MAY 2008
In conclusion, Cape Town is indeed a beautiful, scenic place to live and work in. I am Proudly Cape Town and would not exchange it for any place in the world.
Table Mountain serves as backdrop to rainbow on morning of 25 July 2011
During the past weekend I had the opportunity to attend a presentation where the speaker highlighted to high school learners the beauty and splendour of Cape Town as a tourist destination.
This morning one of my staff members rushed into my office and excitedly requested that I come to their side of the office to view the rainbow etched against Table Mountain. From our 5th floor vantage point we had a clear, uninhibited view of others taking photos of a magnificent Table Mountain bathed in early morning winter clouds and serving as a backdrop to a beautiful rainbow.
Cameras were clicking away furiously to capture the sight to behold and tweets were siumultaneously sent and received informing followers to view the picture perfect moment. Needlees to say, office work took a back seat as we took in the view of Table Mountain. We all heaved a sigh when the rainbow disappeared and were in unison with our appreciation and the privilege of having our offices within sight of Table Mountain.
All this excitement brought back memories of the Southern Line Tourism Route training I did for Metrorail staff prior to the 2010 Soccer World Cup. Courtesy Cape Town Tourism, herewith an extract from my power point presentation, which showcases why Cape Town is one of the leading places to visit:
CAPE TOWN: 2ND BEST CITY IN THE WORLD - US TRAVEL AND LEISURE, JULY 2009
CAPE TOWN: WORLD'S BEST ENTERTAINMENT/LIFESTYLE DESTINATION, LUXURY TRAVEL AWARDS, APRIL 2009
CAPE TOWN: BEST TOURISM INVESTOR CITY OF THE YEAR, AI TOURISM INVESTOR AWARDS 2009
CAPE TOWN: FAVOURITE WORLD CITY, UK TELEGRAPH NOVEMBER 2008
CAPE TOWN: 4TH TOP CITY IN THE WORLD - CONDENAST READERS' CHOICE OCTOBER 2008
CAPE TOWN: 3RD BEST CITY IN THE WORLD, US TRAVEL AND LEISURE JULY 2008
CAPE TOWN: BEST CITY IN AFRICA & MIDDLE EAST - US TRAVEL AND LEISURE JULY 2008, 2009
CAPE TOWN: 3RD BEST CITY IN THE TOP 10 WORLD FOOD CITIES - LONELY PLANET BLUE LIST JULY 2008
CAPE TOWN: ONE OF THE “PLACES OF A LIFETIME” – NATIONAL GEOGRAPHIC TRAVELER JULY 2008
CAPE TOWN: BEST DESTINATION, AFRICA - WORLD TRAVEL AWARDS MAY 2008
In conclusion, Cape Town is indeed a beautiful, scenic place to live and work in. I am Proudly Cape Town and would not exchange it for any place in the world.
Table Mountain serves as backdrop to rainbow on morning of 25 July 2011
"ROCK JOURNALISM IS PEOPLE WHO CAN'T WRITE INTERVIEWING PEOPLE WHO CAN'T TALK FOR PEOPLE WHO CAN'T READ' (FRANK ZAPPA)
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As a music lover of mostly classical music, I must confess that the title of the blog really had my mind running round in circles. The closest I have come to rock music is watching ‘The Osbourne Show’ on television – and whilst I am a huge fan of Ozzie Osbourne the family man, I am still clueless as to the various nuances which make up rock music.
According to the ‘ Ten Commandments of Rock Journalism’ ( http://www.ultimate-guitar.com/columns/the_guide_to/the_ten_commandments_of_rock_journalism.html), the author alludes to the fact that a metal journalist is completely different and much harder than being “just another music journalist.”
In order to be a credible rock journalist, one has to have an intimate knowledge and passion of rock music and its very specific target audience. Although it might sound like notes being hammered out on the keyboard and electric guitar – the harder the better - I believe that each song carries a message.
Followers of rock music ‘have the ears’ to intimately understand and appreciate what is presented to them. Rock music and its very specific musical style, would not have survived if it did not have a broad, global appeal.
In conclusion, I do not agree with Frank Zappa’s interpretation of rock journalism. My personal view is that the quotation is an insult to the millions of people across the globe who are tuned into, and religiously follow rock music – listening, reading and viewing. They get the rhythm, the beat, the nuances and the message and in order to do so, a certain level of intelligence is required.
As a music lover of mostly classical music, I must confess that the title of the blog really had my mind running round in circles. The closest I have come to rock music is watching ‘The Osbourne Show’ on television – and whilst I am a huge fan of Ozzie Osbourne the family man, I am still clueless as to the various nuances which make up rock music.
According to the ‘ Ten Commandments of Rock Journalism’ ( http://www.ultimate-guitar.com/columns/the_guide_to/the_ten_commandments_of_rock_journalism.html), the author alludes to the fact that a metal journalist is completely different and much harder than being “just another music journalist.”
In order to be a credible rock journalist, one has to have an intimate knowledge and passion of rock music and its very specific target audience. Although it might sound like notes being hammered out on the keyboard and electric guitar – the harder the better - I believe that each song carries a message.
Followers of rock music ‘have the ears’ to intimately understand and appreciate what is presented to them. Rock music and its very specific musical style, would not have survived if it did not have a broad, global appeal.
In conclusion, I do not agree with Frank Zappa’s interpretation of rock journalism. My personal view is that the quotation is an insult to the millions of people across the globe who are tuned into, and religiously follow rock music – listening, reading and viewing. They get the rhythm, the beat, the nuances and the message and in order to do so, a certain level of intelligence is required.
Sunday, July 24, 2011
MANY A RAINY DAY SAVES THE DAY
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‘Save your money for a rainy day’ is a phrase which has been shared with us from childhood into adulthood. Financial institutions also use this cliche to encourage South Africans to save a percentage of their heart-earned cash for a rainy day (South Africans are notorious for their lack of saving).
During the week the phrase took on a different meaning when Belhar residents were left without running water from Wednesday afternoon until approximately 07h00 the following morning. Interesting how one assumes that the ‘water fairies’ of the City of Cape Town would work their miracle throughout the night to restore the water supply. All this maintenance repairis should ofcourse have taken place whilst we were in slumberland.
On waking up at 05h30 the following morning, we were however met with a rather unpleasant surprise - No running water and to make matter worse, we have not purchased any bottled water the night before.
Enter the hero of the morning:
Background : Last year Dad installed a water tank in the garden, primarily for gardening and swimming pool purposes. At the same time also positively contributing towards a greener Cape Town. The family recently complained when the idea of a second water tank was mooted by Dad – based on the fact that it takes up too much space.
Whilst I was still doing a final tossing around in bed and contemplating on suitable attire for the day, Dad sprang into action and released vast quantities of rainwater from the water tank for early morning household purposes.
I must also mention that it was the first time that water was used for personal hygiene. Where there is a will , there is a way, and I was indeed pleasantly surprised at the good quality of rainwater the tank had held in its big, firm belly.
This experience has taught us valuable lessons and we now have new respect for Dad for his water management endeavours. Most importantly, it pays to save rainy water for a waterless day. In doing so, rainy water can indeed save the day.
There is also another happy ending : the second water tank is now closer to becoming a reality.
‘Save your money for a rainy day’ is a phrase which has been shared with us from childhood into adulthood. Financial institutions also use this cliche to encourage South Africans to save a percentage of their heart-earned cash for a rainy day (South Africans are notorious for their lack of saving).
During the week the phrase took on a different meaning when Belhar residents were left without running water from Wednesday afternoon until approximately 07h00 the following morning. Interesting how one assumes that the ‘water fairies’ of the City of Cape Town would work their miracle throughout the night to restore the water supply. All this maintenance repairis should ofcourse have taken place whilst we were in slumberland.
On waking up at 05h30 the following morning, we were however met with a rather unpleasant surprise - No running water and to make matter worse, we have not purchased any bottled water the night before.
Enter the hero of the morning:
Background : Last year Dad installed a water tank in the garden, primarily for gardening and swimming pool purposes. At the same time also positively contributing towards a greener Cape Town. The family recently complained when the idea of a second water tank was mooted by Dad – based on the fact that it takes up too much space.
Whilst I was still doing a final tossing around in bed and contemplating on suitable attire for the day, Dad sprang into action and released vast quantities of rainwater from the water tank for early morning household purposes.
I must also mention that it was the first time that water was used for personal hygiene. Where there is a will , there is a way, and I was indeed pleasantly surprised at the good quality of rainwater the tank had held in its big, firm belly.
This experience has taught us valuable lessons and we now have new respect for Dad for his water management endeavours. Most importantly, it pays to save rainy water for a waterless day. In doing so, rainy water can indeed save the day.
There is also another happy ending : the second water tank is now closer to becoming a reality.
ANDY WARHOL SAID, "IN THE FUTURE EVERYBODY WILL BE WORLD FAMOUS FOR FIFTEEN MINUTES"
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Everyone dreams of their fifteen minutes of fame. We love it when our photos feature in the print media and become the talk of the town. Better still, seeing ourselves on television or on the big screen at sporting events, means that we’ve made it onto the fifteen minutes hall of fame.
Reality shows on the other hand give a whole new meaning to the phrase ‘fifteen minutes of fame’ A whole new industry has been developed with the sole purpose of providing everyone and anyone with a platform and opportunity to become famous.
Fifteen minutes of fame also comes in many shapes and forms, from the genuine to the ridiculous. A current 15 minute fame seeker was featured on CNN in Anderson Cooper’s ‘Ridiculist’ last week. It features the marriage between a 16 year old teenager and a 51 year old artist. Bizarre footage of love and marriage - and to crown it all, they are already contemplating their own reality programme. Talk about stretching the fifteen minutes of fame!
I believe that in the future we will all have our fifteen minutes of fame. Social Media has made this possible – Facebook, Twitter, blogs, to name but a few. It only requires a click of a button and one’s name can pop up anywhere and everywhere in the world.
There are a number of examples that speaks to where the bright lights of ‘fame’ shine on us, i.e Matric Ball, Graduation, 21st , 50th, 60th birthday, anniversaries and other important milestones we celebrate throughout our lives. Whilst all of us have not yet embraced social media, family and friends post messages and photos on Facebook, Twitter and write blogs - hence an ordinary occasion creates an opportunity to catapult us into the 15 minutes hall of fame.
In conclusion, there are those who actively seek their 15 minutes of fame elsewhere – often leaving home or country for greener pastures. It reminds me of the quotation by Mark Twain, “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So sail from the safe harbor. Catch the high winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”
Go, Go. Go ! Your 15 minutes of fame awaits!
Everyone dreams of their fifteen minutes of fame. We love it when our photos feature in the print media and become the talk of the town. Better still, seeing ourselves on television or on the big screen at sporting events, means that we’ve made it onto the fifteen minutes hall of fame.
Reality shows on the other hand give a whole new meaning to the phrase ‘fifteen minutes of fame’ A whole new industry has been developed with the sole purpose of providing everyone and anyone with a platform and opportunity to become famous.
Fifteen minutes of fame also comes in many shapes and forms, from the genuine to the ridiculous. A current 15 minute fame seeker was featured on CNN in Anderson Cooper’s ‘Ridiculist’ last week. It features the marriage between a 16 year old teenager and a 51 year old artist. Bizarre footage of love and marriage - and to crown it all, they are already contemplating their own reality programme. Talk about stretching the fifteen minutes of fame!
I believe that in the future we will all have our fifteen minutes of fame. Social Media has made this possible – Facebook, Twitter, blogs, to name but a few. It only requires a click of a button and one’s name can pop up anywhere and everywhere in the world.
There are a number of examples that speaks to where the bright lights of ‘fame’ shine on us, i.e Matric Ball, Graduation, 21st , 50th, 60th birthday, anniversaries and other important milestones we celebrate throughout our lives. Whilst all of us have not yet embraced social media, family and friends post messages and photos on Facebook, Twitter and write blogs - hence an ordinary occasion creates an opportunity to catapult us into the 15 minutes hall of fame.
In conclusion, there are those who actively seek their 15 minutes of fame elsewhere – often leaving home or country for greener pastures. It reminds me of the quotation by Mark Twain, “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So sail from the safe harbor. Catch the high winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”
Go, Go. Go ! Your 15 minutes of fame awaits!
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
WE HAVE THE ABILITY REGARDLESS THE DISABILITY
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I recently had the opportunity to meet and interact with members of the Eagles Wheelchair Rugby Team, whose bus transport to participate in the SA Wheelchair Rugby League Tournament held in Bloemfontein from 1 – 3 July 2011, was sponsored by the Passenger Rail Agency of South Africa (PRASA).
‘Wheelchair rugby is a sport played by persons who have a disability affecting upper and lower limbs. It is a mixed sport, with men and women competing on the same teams. Originally known as “murderball”, wheelchair rugby was developed in Winnipeg in the 1970s for athletes who are quadruplegic. Combining elements of basketball, hockey and team handball, it’s also the only full-contact sport played by people with disabilities. For many, it might be considered ‘just a sport’ but to members of the Eagles Wheelchair Rugby Team, it is their life.’ – Tohier Abrahams
I have absolute admiration for the Chairperson, Tohier Abrahams, who unbeknown to him, have secured the first sponsorship not only for Wheelchair Rugby, but also for applicants emanating from the Western Cape region. Following a recent setback in which the team was unable to participate in East London due to lack of transportation, his determination not to let the players down, reminds me of the quotation by George Bernard Shaw, “ People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don’t believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they can’t find them, make them.”
The opportunity to engage with the Eagles Wheelchair Rugby team, was indeed a humbling and most rewarding experience. In addition to acquiring knowledge of a different type of rugby being played (which I must admit until the meeting, was limited to able-bodied rules and refereeing), I am also thankful for the opportunity to learn a valuable lesson relating to determination in the face of financial obstacles. I’m looking forward to being involved in future projects with them, but most importantly, having the opportunity to learn from an inspirational group of wheelchair-bound rugby players.
In conclusion, I’d like to acknowledge a small group of people who have made transportation and participation in the Wheelchair Rugby League Tournament a reality:
PRASA GM: Corporate Affairs (Justin Mnkandla)
Chairperson , Eagles Wheelchair Rugby Team (Tohier Abrahams)
Spokesperson, Eagles Wheelchair Rugby Team (Na-aymah Samaai)
.“A small group of thoughtful people could change the world. Indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has” – Margaret Mead
People interested in participating in wheelchair rugby, can contact Na-aymah Samaai at 083 320 9319
Members of the Eagles Wheelchair Rugby Team with PRASA and Metrorail Management
I recently had the opportunity to meet and interact with members of the Eagles Wheelchair Rugby Team, whose bus transport to participate in the SA Wheelchair Rugby League Tournament held in Bloemfontein from 1 – 3 July 2011, was sponsored by the Passenger Rail Agency of South Africa (PRASA).
‘Wheelchair rugby is a sport played by persons who have a disability affecting upper and lower limbs. It is a mixed sport, with men and women competing on the same teams. Originally known as “murderball”, wheelchair rugby was developed in Winnipeg in the 1970s for athletes who are quadruplegic. Combining elements of basketball, hockey and team handball, it’s also the only full-contact sport played by people with disabilities. For many, it might be considered ‘just a sport’ but to members of the Eagles Wheelchair Rugby Team, it is their life.’ – Tohier Abrahams
I have absolute admiration for the Chairperson, Tohier Abrahams, who unbeknown to him, have secured the first sponsorship not only for Wheelchair Rugby, but also for applicants emanating from the Western Cape region. Following a recent setback in which the team was unable to participate in East London due to lack of transportation, his determination not to let the players down, reminds me of the quotation by George Bernard Shaw, “ People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don’t believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they can’t find them, make them.”
The opportunity to engage with the Eagles Wheelchair Rugby team, was indeed a humbling and most rewarding experience. In addition to acquiring knowledge of a different type of rugby being played (which I must admit until the meeting, was limited to able-bodied rules and refereeing), I am also thankful for the opportunity to learn a valuable lesson relating to determination in the face of financial obstacles. I’m looking forward to being involved in future projects with them, but most importantly, having the opportunity to learn from an inspirational group of wheelchair-bound rugby players.
In conclusion, I’d like to acknowledge a small group of people who have made transportation and participation in the Wheelchair Rugby League Tournament a reality:
PRASA GM: Corporate Affairs (Justin Mnkandla)
Chairperson , Eagles Wheelchair Rugby Team (Tohier Abrahams)
Spokesperson, Eagles Wheelchair Rugby Team (Na-aymah Samaai)
.“A small group of thoughtful people could change the world. Indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has” – Margaret Mead
People interested in participating in wheelchair rugby, can contact Na-aymah Samaai at 083 320 9319
Members of the Eagles Wheelchair Rugby Team with PRASA and Metrorail Management
Monday, July 18, 2011
A CALL TO ACTION - 67 MINUTES
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18 July is the birthday of one of South Africans most iconic figures, Nelson Mandela who has spent 67 years making the world a better place. It is on this day that the Mandela Day Campaign calls on people everywhere to celebrate Mandela’s birthday by committing 67 minutes of their time to “recognize their individual power to make an imprint and help change the world around them for the better,” - Nelson Mandela Foundation.
It does not matter in whatever shape of form the 67 minutes is, the importance is that we spend time reflecting on how we can make a difference and then putting these plans into action - giving unselfishly of our time. “Since you get more joy out of giving to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give,” - Eleanor Roosevelt, former US First Lady
In the spirit of Ubuntu, South Africans will heed the call to assist organizations and communities in a number of ways ranging from:
• Cleaning of premises
• Planting trees
• Donating food and clothes and/or other essentials
• Washing windows/floors
• Reading and/or story-telling
• Painting and /or decorating houses
I fully support he 67 minutes campaign and to this end I can confidently confirm hat on Saturday 16 July 2011, Metrorail staff members and community volunteers have committed more than 67 minutes by transporting 100 learners to Cavendish Square to participate in the ‘Every girl is a princess’ campaign. In addition to being transported, pampered, having their photos taken alongside celebrities and receiving numerous goodies, these girls also signed a wall treaty which focussed on Abuse against Women.
In conclusion I believe that we all should constantly strive to reach out to others and make every day our own, personal Nelson Mandela 67 Minute Day. “Happiness is never something you get from other people. The happiness you feel is in direct proportion to the love you give” - Oprah Winfrey.
18 July is the birthday of one of South Africans most iconic figures, Nelson Mandela who has spent 67 years making the world a better place. It is on this day that the Mandela Day Campaign calls on people everywhere to celebrate Mandela’s birthday by committing 67 minutes of their time to “recognize their individual power to make an imprint and help change the world around them for the better,” - Nelson Mandela Foundation.
It does not matter in whatever shape of form the 67 minutes is, the importance is that we spend time reflecting on how we can make a difference and then putting these plans into action - giving unselfishly of our time. “Since you get more joy out of giving to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give,” - Eleanor Roosevelt, former US First Lady
In the spirit of Ubuntu, South Africans will heed the call to assist organizations and communities in a number of ways ranging from:
• Cleaning of premises
• Planting trees
• Donating food and clothes and/or other essentials
• Washing windows/floors
• Reading and/or story-telling
• Painting and /or decorating houses
I fully support he 67 minutes campaign and to this end I can confidently confirm hat on Saturday 16 July 2011, Metrorail staff members and community volunteers have committed more than 67 minutes by transporting 100 learners to Cavendish Square to participate in the ‘Every girl is a princess’ campaign. In addition to being transported, pampered, having their photos taken alongside celebrities and receiving numerous goodies, these girls also signed a wall treaty which focussed on Abuse against Women.
In conclusion I believe that we all should constantly strive to reach out to others and make every day our own, personal Nelson Mandela 67 Minute Day. “Happiness is never something you get from other people. The happiness you feel is in direct proportion to the love you give” - Oprah Winfrey.
A SKILL SET CALLED LEADERSHIP
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Reams of paper and research has been written on Leadership and Management. According to author of Effective Leadership, Johan Adair, the ‘’art of good leadership is highly prized and demands a keen ability to appraise, understand and inspire both colleagues and subordinates.”
The following extract, also taken from the book, further illustrates the core qualities and attributes of an effective leader: .
SHORT COURSE ON LEADERSHIP
The six most important words …
“I admit I made a mistake”
The five most important words …
“I am proud of you.”
The four most important words…
“What is your opinion?”
The three most important words…
“If you please.”
The two most important words…
”Thank you”
The one most important word …
“We.”
During its long history,South Africa has produced a number of leaders in various fields. During my time, I believe one such leader is Francois Pienaar, who not only motivated and inspired his team to win the Rugby World Cup, but also, together with Nelson Mandela (then President of South Africa), contributed significantly towards nation-building.
The Roman poet Propertius wrote “Let each man pass his days in that wherein his skill is greatest. This quotation reminds me of by far the greatest leader South Africa has produced – the iconic Nelson Mandela.
As a leader he has motivated not only South Africans, but has inspired millions across the globe. On the one hand he has peacefully moved South Africans from the bondage of the apartheid years, and on the other hand, millions have been moved by his humbleness, forgiveness, dignity and respectfulness.
Nelson Mandela : A people’s leader on par with Mother Theresa.
Reams of paper and research has been written on Leadership and Management. According to author of Effective Leadership, Johan Adair, the ‘’art of good leadership is highly prized and demands a keen ability to appraise, understand and inspire both colleagues and subordinates.”
The following extract, also taken from the book, further illustrates the core qualities and attributes of an effective leader: .
SHORT COURSE ON LEADERSHIP
The six most important words …
“I admit I made a mistake”
The five most important words …
“I am proud of you.”
The four most important words…
“What is your opinion?”
The three most important words…
“If you please.”
The two most important words…
”Thank you”
The one most important word …
“We.”
During its long history,South Africa has produced a number of leaders in various fields. During my time, I believe one such leader is Francois Pienaar, who not only motivated and inspired his team to win the Rugby World Cup, but also, together with Nelson Mandela (then President of South Africa), contributed significantly towards nation-building.
The Roman poet Propertius wrote “Let each man pass his days in that wherein his skill is greatest. This quotation reminds me of by far the greatest leader South Africa has produced – the iconic Nelson Mandela.
As a leader he has motivated not only South Africans, but has inspired millions across the globe. On the one hand he has peacefully moved South Africans from the bondage of the apartheid years, and on the other hand, millions have been moved by his humbleness, forgiveness, dignity and respectfulness.
Nelson Mandela : A people’s leader on par with Mother Theresa.
Monday, July 4, 2011
GOVENDER’S HOUSE OF SPICE : GOING THE EXTRA CUSTOMER SERVICE MILE
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Over the weekend I visited Govender’s House of Spice, the local Spice Shop at Belhar Shopping Centre, with the aim of purchasing Breyani Mix. As so often happened in the past, the owner, who is also the customer service assistant, provided additional information relating to current spices and those ones which blend in best with other spices. Needless to say, my initial purchase which was R8.00, doubled by 100% with the purchase of a fresh bunch of Dhania - which as most housewives know, adds that extra aroma and flavour to curries.
Although the amount spent might not be significant, what is important is the service. When one enters the shop, you are always greeted by a welcoming assistant who is extremely knowledgeable and makes the customer feel as if they are the only person in the shop - such is his level of customer service and attention to shopping detail. Whilst I understand fully that he is trying to move stock items, what always impresses me, is the underlying message customers get on entering, shopping and exiting Govender’s House of Spice : ‘The Customer is King!’
I forgot to mention – it is not Mother’s Day or Women’s Day – yet sweets are beautifully displayed in a bowel and customers are politely offered one whilst paying for items purchased.
There are countless examples of companies going the extra customer service mile. On the other hand, there are the same number, or more, falling into the ‘I don’t give a damn about Customer Service’ category. To name a few examples of staff :
- Chewing gum
- Having conversations amongst themselves
- Not having any product knowledge to offer alternatives
- Not making customers aware of specials on offer
None of the above fortunately applies when purchasing spices at the afore-mentioned shop. The objective of the blog not to complain, but to draw attention to and highlight the exemplary customer service one often experiences at smaller shops, where owners take the lead, are found on the shop floor and make customers feel that they are the most important shopper on the shop floor.
Keep up the good work in keeping customers happy, smiling, and returning - not only to purchase spices, but also to tap into the wealth of knowledge freely shared with customers. As a loyal customer I will continue shopping for spices and hopefully in a small way, contribute to its profit margins.
In conclusion, I believe Govender’s House of Spice exemplifies the following quotation by Grace Machel, ‘There is no room for satisfaction. You have to give the best (customer service) contribution you can.’
Over the weekend I visited Govender’s House of Spice, the local Spice Shop at Belhar Shopping Centre, with the aim of purchasing Breyani Mix. As so often happened in the past, the owner, who is also the customer service assistant, provided additional information relating to current spices and those ones which blend in best with other spices. Needless to say, my initial purchase which was R8.00, doubled by 100% with the purchase of a fresh bunch of Dhania - which as most housewives know, adds that extra aroma and flavour to curries.
Although the amount spent might not be significant, what is important is the service. When one enters the shop, you are always greeted by a welcoming assistant who is extremely knowledgeable and makes the customer feel as if they are the only person in the shop - such is his level of customer service and attention to shopping detail. Whilst I understand fully that he is trying to move stock items, what always impresses me, is the underlying message customers get on entering, shopping and exiting Govender’s House of Spice : ‘The Customer is King!’
I forgot to mention – it is not Mother’s Day or Women’s Day – yet sweets are beautifully displayed in a bowel and customers are politely offered one whilst paying for items purchased.
There are countless examples of companies going the extra customer service mile. On the other hand, there are the same number, or more, falling into the ‘I don’t give a damn about Customer Service’ category. To name a few examples of staff :
- Chewing gum
- Having conversations amongst themselves
- Not having any product knowledge to offer alternatives
- Not making customers aware of specials on offer
None of the above fortunately applies when purchasing spices at the afore-mentioned shop. The objective of the blog not to complain, but to draw attention to and highlight the exemplary customer service one often experiences at smaller shops, where owners take the lead, are found on the shop floor and make customers feel that they are the most important shopper on the shop floor.
Keep up the good work in keeping customers happy, smiling, and returning - not only to purchase spices, but also to tap into the wealth of knowledge freely shared with customers. As a loyal customer I will continue shopping for spices and hopefully in a small way, contribute to its profit margins.
In conclusion, I believe Govender’s House of Spice exemplifies the following quotation by Grace Machel, ‘There is no room for satisfaction. You have to give the best (customer service) contribution you can.’
LIST YOUR TOP 200 ACHIEVEMENTS
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Today's blog reminds me of an interview where one gets the opportunity to go to town with list of achievements. In this case, the list of 200 seems excessively daunting – hence I did a quick online check to obtain a list of South Africa’s achievements. I stumbled upon a list of 14 identified by ‘uk.answers.yahoo.com Some great South African achievements......Did you know? ‘
Against this background, If I don't manage 200 achievements, I am in good company.
To kick-start my list of achievements, I thought of mentioning my achievement relating to family and promptly roped in my eldest son to contribute to Mom’s achievements. (I was secretly hoping for a good reference to use in the blog). I was however instructed to read the article ‘Baby on board’ in the book ‘Complete Kak’, and thus ended my hope of mentioning giving birth to two great sons as an achievement. According to this book, childbirth is not a one-of-a-kind accomplishment. I have not done something extraordinary or applied intellect to the solution of some great riddle of the universe. Well, so much for wanting to use childbirth as one my achievements. (Next time I will not consult with son!)
There are however a number of things, (thank goodness not related to childbirth) that I have managed to accomplish during my lifetime of which I am extremely proud of:
• On being selected as Head Girl of Wesley Teacher’s College.
• On achieving top marks in Student Teaching and selected to represent students in practical year-end teaching exams– an achievement repeated three times at Wesley Teacher’s College and Bellville College of Education respectively.
• On being selected by Western Cape Education Department (WCED) to manage and co-ordinate the ERUB Children’s Choir.
• On being seconded by the WCED to manage and development an educational programme for Metrorail’s school-on-wheels, Themba Edutrain.
• Completing the five-day Otter Hiking Trail –one of the most prestigious hiking trails in South Africa.
• Delivering on a four-year wish list when my younger sister and I travelled together to attend our sister’s 50th birthday in Auckland, New Zealand.
• Conceptualising and implementing 2010 Soccer World Cup training to Metrorail Customer Service Staff.
• Development and management , in collaboration with the City of Cape Town, of the Southern Line Tourism Route.
• Studying to become an accredited Tourist Guide.
• Creating Guided Tours of Cape Town Station – a first for Metrorail.
• Establishment of a Rail Tourism Info kiosk at Cape Town Station – a first for Metrorail.
• Having an online voice – Blogs and Twitter
Although the list does not come close to 200, most importantly, I have tried to make a small contribution (a drop in the ocean) during my lifetime. Oliver Wendell Holmes says, ‘Many people die with their music still in them. Why is this so? Too often it is because they are always getting ready to live. Before they know it, time runs out.’
In conclusion, the quotation by Mother Theresa speaks volumes, ‘We ourselves feel that what we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. But if that drop was not in the ocean, I think the ocean would be less because of that missing drop. I do not agree with the big way of doing things’.
Today's blog reminds me of an interview where one gets the opportunity to go to town with list of achievements. In this case, the list of 200 seems excessively daunting – hence I did a quick online check to obtain a list of South Africa’s achievements. I stumbled upon a list of 14 identified by ‘uk.answers.yahoo.com Some great South African achievements......Did you know? ‘
Against this background, If I don't manage 200 achievements, I am in good company.
To kick-start my list of achievements, I thought of mentioning my achievement relating to family and promptly roped in my eldest son to contribute to Mom’s achievements. (I was secretly hoping for a good reference to use in the blog). I was however instructed to read the article ‘Baby on board’ in the book ‘Complete Kak’, and thus ended my hope of mentioning giving birth to two great sons as an achievement. According to this book, childbirth is not a one-of-a-kind accomplishment. I have not done something extraordinary or applied intellect to the solution of some great riddle of the universe. Well, so much for wanting to use childbirth as one my achievements. (Next time I will not consult with son!)
There are however a number of things, (thank goodness not related to childbirth) that I have managed to accomplish during my lifetime of which I am extremely proud of:
• On being selected as Head Girl of Wesley Teacher’s College.
• On achieving top marks in Student Teaching and selected to represent students in practical year-end teaching exams– an achievement repeated three times at Wesley Teacher’s College and Bellville College of Education respectively.
• On being selected by Western Cape Education Department (WCED) to manage and co-ordinate the ERUB Children’s Choir.
• On being seconded by the WCED to manage and development an educational programme for Metrorail’s school-on-wheels, Themba Edutrain.
• Completing the five-day Otter Hiking Trail –one of the most prestigious hiking trails in South Africa.
• Delivering on a four-year wish list when my younger sister and I travelled together to attend our sister’s 50th birthday in Auckland, New Zealand.
• Conceptualising and implementing 2010 Soccer World Cup training to Metrorail Customer Service Staff.
• Development and management , in collaboration with the City of Cape Town, of the Southern Line Tourism Route.
• Studying to become an accredited Tourist Guide.
• Creating Guided Tours of Cape Town Station – a first for Metrorail.
• Establishment of a Rail Tourism Info kiosk at Cape Town Station – a first for Metrorail.
• Having an online voice – Blogs and Twitter
Although the list does not come close to 200, most importantly, I have tried to make a small contribution (a drop in the ocean) during my lifetime. Oliver Wendell Holmes says, ‘Many people die with their music still in them. Why is this so? Too often it is because they are always getting ready to live. Before they know it, time runs out.’
In conclusion, the quotation by Mother Theresa speaks volumes, ‘We ourselves feel that what we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. But if that drop was not in the ocean, I think the ocean would be less because of that missing drop. I do not agree with the big way of doing things’.
Monday, June 27, 2011
WHAT MOTIVATES ME?
#SMED 11
The title of today’s blog reminds me of a job interview – the opportunity to sell oneself to the panel of interviewers.
In addressing the issue of ‘What motivates me', I have tried to keep it as short as possible:
- Family : Being blessed with a wonderful family
- Friends : Spending quality time with a small circle of friends
- Music (classical) : Finding inspiration in classical music
- Music (contemporary) : Enjoying the dance movements and dancing to the beat
- Arts and Culture : Appreciation for artistic performances
- Nature : Spending time in nature – I love the sound of the wind, birds
and flowing water down a mountainside
- Reading : finding time to read and reflect in a favourite chair
- Travel : Planning and spendning time with my sister and her family overseas
- Student : The opportunity to be a student for life
In addition to the above I love the challenge of taking on new ideas and/or business opportunities. There is no greater satisfaction than going from being clueless, having to put a strategy in place, and finding that “Ah-Hah moment’ – when everything just falls into place. Serves as great motivation, builds character, self-esteem and serves as inspiration for future projects.
In conclusion, the following two quotations are very dear to me and serve as great motivation:
“Build your career around what you love. You increase your chances of success significantly and it will make it easier to keep going during tough times.” – Khanyi Dhlomo
“Passion is energy. Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you.” - Oprah Winfrey
The title of today’s blog reminds me of a job interview – the opportunity to sell oneself to the panel of interviewers.
In addressing the issue of ‘What motivates me', I have tried to keep it as short as possible:
- Family : Being blessed with a wonderful family
- Friends : Spending quality time with a small circle of friends
- Music (classical) : Finding inspiration in classical music
- Music (contemporary) : Enjoying the dance movements and dancing to the beat
- Arts and Culture : Appreciation for artistic performances
- Nature : Spending time in nature – I love the sound of the wind, birds
and flowing water down a mountainside
- Reading : finding time to read and reflect in a favourite chair
- Travel : Planning and spendning time with my sister and her family overseas
- Student : The opportunity to be a student for life
In addition to the above I love the challenge of taking on new ideas and/or business opportunities. There is no greater satisfaction than going from being clueless, having to put a strategy in place, and finding that “Ah-Hah moment’ – when everything just falls into place. Serves as great motivation, builds character, self-esteem and serves as inspiration for future projects.
In conclusion, the following two quotations are very dear to me and serve as great motivation:
“Build your career around what you love. You increase your chances of success significantly and it will make it easier to keep going during tough times.” – Khanyi Dhlomo
“Passion is energy. Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you.” - Oprah Winfrey
REALITY TV SHOWS
#SMED 11
For those who have access to DSTV have you noticed the proliferation of Reality TV shows one can tune into? To name but a few, they range from:
• Food
• Dancing
• Singing
• Romance
• Survival
• Weddings
• Rock stars
• Weight loss
• Hair dressing
• Family life
• Makeovers
• Property market
Not forgetting, albeit with much guilt, my current favourite (when time allows) Big Brother Amplified. I must admit that I too have enjoyed some Reality TV shows, but others have raised eyebrows and many questions, i.e:
When is enough enough?. Are viewers such suckers for juicy stories that we keep the viewership and shows alive by yearning for more?
Many years ago the Osbourne Family provided for great entertainment and the show was a major success. I think times have changed since then as today anyone and everyone can just hop onto the Reality show bandwagon fir their drawn-out 15 minutes of fame. Today every family wants to have their own reality show - I call them the good, the bad and the ugly! One often gets the impression that discussions are staged and pre-practiced. Must also mention that family participants can sometimes come across as fake and unnatural -botox, boob implants, facelifts, etc are high on the priority list!
Seems as if Reality TV shows can serve as an excellent launch pad for either career opportunities and/or other spin-off shows, to use the Kardashians as a prime example.
I guess reality shows are here to stay and will continue to grow in stature as long as viewers lap them up. I am not a psychologist, but I believe the success of Reality TV shows has much to do with human behaviour – giving viewers a glimpse into the lives (often dysfunctional) of others. We enjoy watching the flaws in others being played out on global channels. It makes us realise that our own flaws and mistakes are ok. We too are human –‘and not as bad as them’. Same principal applies as to why ‘Die Son’ and ‘The Voice’ are extremely popular newspapers.
On the flip side, there are quite a few lessons to be learnt by watching reality shows, to give but a few examples:
- What not to wear
- Best diets to follow
- Planning best wedding
- How to raise one’s family (hopefully get the best out of them)
In conclusion, It's Monday and I’m looking forward to my weekly dose of Big Brother elimination nomination timeslot. I too, like thousands, will be stationed in front of the TV and shamelessly viewing the goings-on of a dysfunctional Tails House.
For those who have access to DSTV have you noticed the proliferation of Reality TV shows one can tune into? To name but a few, they range from:
• Food
• Dancing
• Singing
• Romance
• Survival
• Weddings
• Rock stars
• Weight loss
• Hair dressing
• Family life
• Makeovers
• Property market
Not forgetting, albeit with much guilt, my current favourite (when time allows) Big Brother Amplified. I must admit that I too have enjoyed some Reality TV shows, but others have raised eyebrows and many questions, i.e:
When is enough enough?. Are viewers such suckers for juicy stories that we keep the viewership and shows alive by yearning for more?
Many years ago the Osbourne Family provided for great entertainment and the show was a major success. I think times have changed since then as today anyone and everyone can just hop onto the Reality show bandwagon fir their drawn-out 15 minutes of fame. Today every family wants to have their own reality show - I call them the good, the bad and the ugly! One often gets the impression that discussions are staged and pre-practiced. Must also mention that family participants can sometimes come across as fake and unnatural -botox, boob implants, facelifts, etc are high on the priority list!
Seems as if Reality TV shows can serve as an excellent launch pad for either career opportunities and/or other spin-off shows, to use the Kardashians as a prime example.
I guess reality shows are here to stay and will continue to grow in stature as long as viewers lap them up. I am not a psychologist, but I believe the success of Reality TV shows has much to do with human behaviour – giving viewers a glimpse into the lives (often dysfunctional) of others. We enjoy watching the flaws in others being played out on global channels. It makes us realise that our own flaws and mistakes are ok. We too are human –‘and not as bad as them’. Same principal applies as to why ‘Die Son’ and ‘The Voice’ are extremely popular newspapers.
On the flip side, there are quite a few lessons to be learnt by watching reality shows, to give but a few examples:
- What not to wear
- Best diets to follow
- Planning best wedding
- How to raise one’s family (hopefully get the best out of them)
In conclusion, It's Monday and I’m looking forward to my weekly dose of Big Brother elimination nomination timeslot. I too, like thousands, will be stationed in front of the TV and shamelessly viewing the goings-on of a dysfunctional Tails House.
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
10 MOST UNEXPECTED CONSEQUENCES OF BEING ONLINE
# SMED11
Being online reminds me of the Cluetrain Manifesto - in which the main thesis of the book informs the reader that the Web is not a medium, it is a conversation.
I must admit that I’ve had a Facebook account since 2009, but despite numerous requests and cajoling, I’ve had no inclination to join the conversations family and friends were thoroughly participating in.
Onset of 2011 – change of direction and forced to wear a global hat. Having to complete 1000 tweets and 80 blogs as part of current Media Studies, I am happy to confirm that I too have joined the global conversations : Facebook, Twitter and Blogging.
Herewith follows some of the unexpected consequences of being online. As the Cluetrain says, “A powerful global conversation has begun.”
TWITTER
1. Connecting me with people, family and friends and rediscovering my human
voice.
2. Still cannot believe that I’ve taken to Twitter like a duck to water – from
complete novice/newbie and not knowing what to say (Feb. 2011), I’ve
exceeded all expectations and already clocked up more than 750 tweets to
date.
3. I read about stuff those I follow, like. I might not always share their
tastes, but end up knowing them a little better – on a few occasions they
have been surprised that I remembered details of tweets they had posted.
4. Twitter friends often have more real-time information than the media and
organisations – sharing relevant knowledge with blinding speed.
5. I’m part of a world where everyone is constantly learning. Having the
opportunity to expand and gain knowledge, particularly relating to current
events (up until reading a tweet, I was clueless as to who or what the
’Script’ was – now know it is a rock group due to perform at the Grand
Arena).
6. If unable to attend or view major sporting events – no problem : live and
regular updates are brought to you via twitter friends (thus ensuring I
am part of the online scoreboard!)
BLOGGING
7. Getting e-mails, sms’s and reminders from my sister in New Zealand that
she’s waiting for next blog to be posted – particularly during a recent
period when blogs fell behind schedule. (love you for that Sister!)
8. Receiving complimentary telephone calls from people who have read my
blogs: Comment, “You’ve found a new calling – writing.”
9. Having the privilege and opportunity to use Mother’s and Father’s Day
respectively as inspiration to write about late parents – a first in terms
of a family member being remembered/honoured online.
Comment, “You should have warned me that I needed tissues when reading the
blog.”
10. I enjoy, appreciate and am humbled by the active participation of family,
colleagues and friends in discussing and engaging with current and
forthcoming blogs – in most cases blog inspirations/ideas are found within
the family domain.
With regard to Facebook, although I have upped my game, contributed to and grown my friends’ database, I still exercises caution with my personal preference remaining Twitter.
I’ve woken up, joined the global conversations and hopped onto the ‘online train’ (with reference to the Cluetrain). I’ve embraced and find the online journey a most pleasant experience.
In conclusion, a special thanks to CPUT lecturer, Marian Pike, for her encouragement, guidance and enthusiasm to enter global conversation.
Being online reminds me of the Cluetrain Manifesto - in which the main thesis of the book informs the reader that the Web is not a medium, it is a conversation.
I must admit that I’ve had a Facebook account since 2009, but despite numerous requests and cajoling, I’ve had no inclination to join the conversations family and friends were thoroughly participating in.
Onset of 2011 – change of direction and forced to wear a global hat. Having to complete 1000 tweets and 80 blogs as part of current Media Studies, I am happy to confirm that I too have joined the global conversations : Facebook, Twitter and Blogging.
Herewith follows some of the unexpected consequences of being online. As the Cluetrain says, “A powerful global conversation has begun.”
1. Connecting me with people, family and friends and rediscovering my human
voice.
2. Still cannot believe that I’ve taken to Twitter like a duck to water – from
complete novice/newbie and not knowing what to say (Feb. 2011), I’ve
exceeded all expectations and already clocked up more than 750 tweets to
date.
3. I read about stuff those I follow, like. I might not always share their
tastes, but end up knowing them a little better – on a few occasions they
have been surprised that I remembered details of tweets they had posted.
4. Twitter friends often have more real-time information than the media and
organisations – sharing relevant knowledge with blinding speed.
5. I’m part of a world where everyone is constantly learning. Having the
opportunity to expand and gain knowledge, particularly relating to current
events (up until reading a tweet, I was clueless as to who or what the
’Script’ was – now know it is a rock group due to perform at the Grand
Arena).
6. If unable to attend or view major sporting events – no problem : live and
regular updates are brought to you via twitter friends (thus ensuring I
am part of the online scoreboard!)
BLOGGING
7. Getting e-mails, sms’s and reminders from my sister in New Zealand that
she’s waiting for next blog to be posted – particularly during a recent
period when blogs fell behind schedule. (love you for that Sister!)
8. Receiving complimentary telephone calls from people who have read my
blogs: Comment, “You’ve found a new calling – writing.”
9. Having the privilege and opportunity to use Mother’s and Father’s Day
respectively as inspiration to write about late parents – a first in terms
of a family member being remembered/honoured online.
Comment, “You should have warned me that I needed tissues when reading the
blog.”
10. I enjoy, appreciate and am humbled by the active participation of family,
colleagues and friends in discussing and engaging with current and
forthcoming blogs – in most cases blog inspirations/ideas are found within
the family domain.
With regard to Facebook, although I have upped my game, contributed to and grown my friends’ database, I still exercises caution with my personal preference remaining Twitter.
I’ve woken up, joined the global conversations and hopped onto the ‘online train’ (with reference to the Cluetrain). I’ve embraced and find the online journey a most pleasant experience.
In conclusion, a special thanks to CPUT lecturer, Marian Pike, for her encouragement, guidance and enthusiasm to enter global conversation.
READY- TO- EAT AVOCADOS
#SMED 11
Ever been to the shop and the purchase of avocado pears is on the shopping list? If you’re like me preferring to purchase ready-to-eat avocados, have you also come unstuck and left the fruit and vegetable aisle avocadoless?
Yesterday was yet another one of those ‘leaving the shop minus advocado days’ – hence the blog inspiration.
Why can’t the fruit and vegetable store stock read-to-eat-avocados? I’m far too impatient to wait for the next 3 – 5 days until they can be eaten. I’ve often passed the crates of hardened avocados wondering why they are not flying off the shelf. On another shopping trip they are overripe – and still not flying off the shelf. Makes we wonder what’s the profit/loss margin on avocados?
What puzzles me though is that :
- Individual (loose) avocados have no ‘sell by or best by date’
- No home ripening instructions are provided
- The only instructions that I’ve come across are : ‘Do not squeeze
avocados’. If avocados cannot be squeezed, the assumption is that shoppers
have trained eyes and by merely looking at an avocado, we would know
whether they are ripe or not
Newsflash: I’m born and bred in the city and know nothing about farming and fruit ripening techniques.
A few questions:
- Must the avocados be wrapped in brown paper?
- Is newspaper better than brown paper?
- Must it be stored in a dry, cool place?
- Can’t avocados be left in a bowl on the kitchen table and left to ripen by
themselves?
- Another thing: which is best – a glass or wooden bowl?
I guess with advocados it a case of the unspoken word, “If you want me, buy me, take me home, nuture me with tender loving care until I’m ready to be served in a gourmet dish!”
Leaving the shopper with little option …. Take it or leave it! My family loves them – so Mom has no option but to purchase and contribute towards the agricultural ripening process.
A last thought : just wondering, as default farmer - why don't I get a discount?
Ever been to the shop and the purchase of avocado pears is on the shopping list? If you’re like me preferring to purchase ready-to-eat avocados, have you also come unstuck and left the fruit and vegetable aisle avocadoless?
Yesterday was yet another one of those ‘leaving the shop minus advocado days’ – hence the blog inspiration.
Why can’t the fruit and vegetable store stock read-to-eat-avocados? I’m far too impatient to wait for the next 3 – 5 days until they can be eaten. I’ve often passed the crates of hardened avocados wondering why they are not flying off the shelf. On another shopping trip they are overripe – and still not flying off the shelf. Makes we wonder what’s the profit/loss margin on avocados?
What puzzles me though is that :
- Individual (loose) avocados have no ‘sell by or best by date’
- No home ripening instructions are provided
- The only instructions that I’ve come across are : ‘Do not squeeze
avocados’. If avocados cannot be squeezed, the assumption is that shoppers
have trained eyes and by merely looking at an avocado, we would know
whether they are ripe or not
Newsflash: I’m born and bred in the city and know nothing about farming and fruit ripening techniques.
A few questions:
- Must the avocados be wrapped in brown paper?
- Is newspaper better than brown paper?
- Must it be stored in a dry, cool place?
- Can’t avocados be left in a bowl on the kitchen table and left to ripen by
themselves?
- Another thing: which is best – a glass or wooden bowl?
I guess with advocados it a case of the unspoken word, “If you want me, buy me, take me home, nuture me with tender loving care until I’m ready to be served in a gourmet dish!”
Leaving the shopper with little option …. Take it or leave it! My family loves them – so Mom has no option but to purchase and contribute towards the agricultural ripening process.
A last thought : just wondering, as default farmer - why don't I get a discount?
FOOD FOR THOUGHT
# SMED 11
I Recently read an article which was published in Auckland, New Zealand, which related to the doors of a shopping centre which had malfunctioned one evening and how some shoppers mistakenly entered the shop (with no staff in sight) and:
1. Some did their shopping and paid for the goods at a self service check-out point;
2. Some walked around the aisles and left the shop when they realised that
something was amiss;
3. Some did their shopping and exited without paying for their goods.
Following media coverage of the incident, 50% of the category 3 shoppers returned to pay for their goods. What peeked my interest in the article was the psychologist being interviewed on her thoughts relating to human behaviour in instances described above. She indicated that in most cases people would generally own up. She further mentioned that where she came from (ex-South African who resided in the Western Cape), she believes that the shop would have suffered major losses, possibly been cleared out.
My initial reaction was disgust, thinking it was another expat , having nothing positive to say about their previous homeland. On second thoughts I had to remind myself that on visiting the same shop during a family visit in 2009, I too mentioned that such a self-service would never work in the Western Cape.
I have subsequently shared the story with a number of colleagues, family and friends and on every occasion I received a 100% response: “If the same shopping incident played out at a Shopping Mall in the Western Cape, the shop would have been cleared out!”
Aside from the article providing for interactive office, dinner and party discussions, most importantly, it begs a few questions relating to crime and theft in the Western Cape:
- Why do people have such negative perceptions relating to theft, values, respect,
etc?
- What are the contributing factors?
- What needs to be done to improve our image?
- What is the impact on the tourism industry?
MAKES ONE THINK - I BELIEVE ‘FOOD FOR THOUGHT’ INDEED!
I Recently read an article which was published in Auckland, New Zealand, which related to the doors of a shopping centre which had malfunctioned one evening and how some shoppers mistakenly entered the shop (with no staff in sight) and:
1. Some did their shopping and paid for the goods at a self service check-out point;
2. Some walked around the aisles and left the shop when they realised that
something was amiss;
3. Some did their shopping and exited without paying for their goods.
Following media coverage of the incident, 50% of the category 3 shoppers returned to pay for their goods. What peeked my interest in the article was the psychologist being interviewed on her thoughts relating to human behaviour in instances described above. She indicated that in most cases people would generally own up. She further mentioned that where she came from (ex-South African who resided in the Western Cape), she believes that the shop would have suffered major losses, possibly been cleared out.
My initial reaction was disgust, thinking it was another expat , having nothing positive to say about their previous homeland. On second thoughts I had to remind myself that on visiting the same shop during a family visit in 2009, I too mentioned that such a self-service would never work in the Western Cape.
I have subsequently shared the story with a number of colleagues, family and friends and on every occasion I received a 100% response: “If the same shopping incident played out at a Shopping Mall in the Western Cape, the shop would have been cleared out!”
Aside from the article providing for interactive office, dinner and party discussions, most importantly, it begs a few questions relating to crime and theft in the Western Cape:
- Why do people have such negative perceptions relating to theft, values, respect,
etc?
- What are the contributing factors?
- What needs to be done to improve our image?
- What is the impact on the tourism industry?
MAKES ONE THINK - I BELIEVE ‘FOOD FOR THOUGHT’ INDEED!
Monday, June 20, 2011
ONE YEAR BEYOND 2010 SOCCER WORLD CUP
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It is exactly one year ago that South Africa was in the throngs of welcoming thousands of sporting fans as we hosted the first-ever Soccer World Cup on African soil.
Sadly, our national soccer team, on whose shoulders the dreams and aspirations of millions of South Africans rested, never made it beyond the group stages . As a sports crazy nation, South Africans however never lost their sporting spirit and proudly adopted other national teams. From the Fan Walks, Fan Parks, policing, transportation accommodation, tourist attractions, spirit of Ubuntu, to name but a few – we did a world class job in welcoming and hosting a successful Soccer World Cup.
One year down the line I cannot help but ask the question : Should we as a country not reflect and reconnect with one of South Africa’s finest sporting hours? 11 June 2010 – 11 July 2010 indeed had a significant number of sporting hours tucked between them. Where is the soccer investment scorecard to keep citizens informed of i.e government expenditure relating to infrastructure, sporting development etc?
Where is the media coverage relating to, i.e the impact and/or benefits
- within the tourism industry?
- on the economy
- on skills development
I'd like to see more media coverage, particular during this period, relating to:
- The development and nurturing of the next team to take the hopes and dreams
of South Africans onto the soccer pitches across Brazil?
- Soccer World Cup Legacy projects –focusing on those community soccer
champions giving of their time and working tirelessly to nurture, guide and
uplift youngsters in the community ?
The 2010 Soccer World Cup has come and gone. For the millions of South Africans fortunate to be part of, attend and experience the vibe and atmosphere of one of the greatest sporting events on African soil, the memories will linger and stay with us with many world cups to come.
I believe one year later is a good best time to go down soccer memory lane. At home, at work, at functions, wherever, whenever – now is the time to remember, reflect and reconnect with a Proudly South African sporting moment.
It is exactly one year ago that South Africa was in the throngs of welcoming thousands of sporting fans as we hosted the first-ever Soccer World Cup on African soil.
Sadly, our national soccer team, on whose shoulders the dreams and aspirations of millions of South Africans rested, never made it beyond the group stages . As a sports crazy nation, South Africans however never lost their sporting spirit and proudly adopted other national teams. From the Fan Walks, Fan Parks, policing, transportation accommodation, tourist attractions, spirit of Ubuntu, to name but a few – we did a world class job in welcoming and hosting a successful Soccer World Cup.
One year down the line I cannot help but ask the question : Should we as a country not reflect and reconnect with one of South Africa’s finest sporting hours? 11 June 2010 – 11 July 2010 indeed had a significant number of sporting hours tucked between them. Where is the soccer investment scorecard to keep citizens informed of i.e government expenditure relating to infrastructure, sporting development etc?
Where is the media coverage relating to, i.e the impact and/or benefits
- within the tourism industry?
- on the economy
- on skills development
I'd like to see more media coverage, particular during this period, relating to:
- The development and nurturing of the next team to take the hopes and dreams
of South Africans onto the soccer pitches across Brazil?
- Soccer World Cup Legacy projects –focusing on those community soccer
champions giving of their time and working tirelessly to nurture, guide and
uplift youngsters in the community ?
The 2010 Soccer World Cup has come and gone. For the millions of South Africans fortunate to be part of, attend and experience the vibe and atmosphere of one of the greatest sporting events on African soil, the memories will linger and stay with us with many world cups to come.
I believe one year later is a good best time to go down soccer memory lane. At home, at work, at functions, wherever, whenever – now is the time to remember, reflect and reconnect with a Proudly South African sporting moment.
EVERY DAY IS A GOOD DAY
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Why do we procrastinate?
Why do we postpone?
Why do we always wait for another day?
Why is today never the right day?
Why put off and wait until tomorrow? BUT
Will tomorrow ever come?
These are just some of the random questions I’ve asked relating to the blog topic ‘Every day is a good day’
I believe that with the right, positive attitude, we should use every day as a good day to:
- Start the elusive diet
- Start the exercise programme
- Tell someone you love him/her
- Start writing the novel
- Start planning for a secure, financial future
- Visit the doctor - have yourself tested
- Have a make-over – manicure / pedicure / new wardrobe, etc
- Spend quality time with a long-lost family member/friend
- Donate money and/or contribute towards a worthy cause
- Stop excessive smoking
- Stop excessive drinking
- Refrain from domestic violence
As we have limited control over what to-morrow has in store for us (aside from the daily routine, which we are familiar with), we should seize the moment. Stop making excuses. Grab, hold on and live each day as if there is no to-morrow.
In conclusion, I believe we should see every day as a good day – the best given day to live our dreams. Every day is a good day – a day filled with the possibility of bringing us closer to living and /or reaching our full potential.
Why do we procrastinate?
Why do we postpone?
Why do we always wait for another day?
Why is today never the right day?
Why put off and wait until tomorrow? BUT
Will tomorrow ever come?
These are just some of the random questions I’ve asked relating to the blog topic ‘Every day is a good day’
I believe that with the right, positive attitude, we should use every day as a good day to:
- Start the elusive diet
- Start the exercise programme
- Tell someone you love him/her
- Start writing the novel
- Start planning for a secure, financial future
- Visit the doctor - have yourself tested
- Have a make-over – manicure / pedicure / new wardrobe, etc
- Spend quality time with a long-lost family member/friend
- Donate money and/or contribute towards a worthy cause
- Stop excessive smoking
- Stop excessive drinking
- Refrain from domestic violence
As we have limited control over what to-morrow has in store for us (aside from the daily routine, which we are familiar with), we should seize the moment. Stop making excuses. Grab, hold on and live each day as if there is no to-morrow.
In conclusion, I believe we should see every day as a good day – the best given day to live our dreams. Every day is a good day – a day filled with the possibility of bringing us closer to living and /or reaching our full potential.
OUR GREATEST STRENGTHS ARE OUR GREATEST WEAKNESSES
# SMED 11
During job interviews the questions “What are your strengths?” and “What are your weaknesses?” are often put forward to job applications. Addressing this blog from an interview point of view, I would respond by mentioning that I bring to the job portfolio extensive knowledge, skills and expertise in the area of public relations, customer service, communication, education, arts and culture, environment and tourism.
In terms of my strength:
1. I am passionate, dedicated, committed and prepared to work myself to the
bone in the things I believe in.
2. I am further blessed with an excellent long-term memory.
In answering the question, ‘One’s greatest strength is also one’s greatest weakness’, I believe that in this regard the corresponding weakness would be:
3. I refuse to give in when I believe strongly about something (with
reference to my commitment to pursue the Edutrain project)
4. I am constantly trying to do too much and consistently striving for the
highest quality of work (relating to ‘working myself to the bone’)
5. Despite the reputation and being admired for having an excellent long term
memory, my short term memory, particularly relating to telephone numbers
and keys, remains an ongoing challenge.
In conclusion, I believe one should continuously strive to find balance between these two extremes so that they work in harmony in the best interest of the individual, the work environment and in one’s home and family life.
During job interviews the questions “What are your strengths?” and “What are your weaknesses?” are often put forward to job applications. Addressing this blog from an interview point of view, I would respond by mentioning that I bring to the job portfolio extensive knowledge, skills and expertise in the area of public relations, customer service, communication, education, arts and culture, environment and tourism.
In terms of my strength:
1. I am passionate, dedicated, committed and prepared to work myself to the
bone in the things I believe in.
2. I am further blessed with an excellent long-term memory.
In answering the question, ‘One’s greatest strength is also one’s greatest weakness’, I believe that in this regard the corresponding weakness would be:
3. I refuse to give in when I believe strongly about something (with
reference to my commitment to pursue the Edutrain project)
4. I am constantly trying to do too much and consistently striving for the
highest quality of work (relating to ‘working myself to the bone’)
5. Despite the reputation and being admired for having an excellent long term
memory, my short term memory, particularly relating to telephone numbers
and keys, remains an ongoing challenge.
In conclusion, I believe one should continuously strive to find balance between these two extremes so that they work in harmony in the best interest of the individual, the work environment and in one’s home and family life.
TRY A CLICHÉ
#SMED11
‘A cliché is an expression, idea, or element of an artistic work which has been overused to the point of losing its original meaning or effect, rendering it a stereotype, especially when at some earlier time it was considered meaningful or novel. The term is frequently used in modern culture for an action or idea which is expected or predictable, based on a prior event. Used sparingly, they may succeed. However, cliché in writing or speech is generally considered a mark of inexperience or unoriginality. (Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia).
Although Laura Haden indicates, ‘avoid them like the plaque – they make for a great book title, but lousy writing…’ (suspense@suspense.net / http://suspense.net), for the purpose of this week’s blog, I have selected to focus on a few which I deem relevant given the tight assignment schedules the majority of students had to adhere to during the past two weeks.
1. ‘You can’t teach an old dog new tricks’
2. ‘Time flies when you're having fun’
On a personal level, I am in complete disagreement with the first cliché. Compared to the average age of students in the Social Media class, I can identify with the cliché, ‘You can’t teach an old dog new tricks’ – in this case the tricks of Twitter. Recent count indicated my current tweets of 600 is way above the required number of tweets as per end May 2011. I can also confidently confirm that another ‘mature student’ has already clocked up more than 700 tweets. Very impressive, and in complete contradiction with the afore-mentioned cliché.
I believe a more appropriate cliché would be ‘Time flies when you're having fun’. Because I am having so much fun and enjoying Twitter engagement with fellow students as well as following others, particularly in the rail-related industry, I’ve not realized that the number of tweets have significantly increased over a relatively short space of time.
In conclusion, whereas in February 2011 the expected number of tweets felt like ‘ Mount Twitter Everest, I believe that ‘Twitter Base Camps’ have been passed, and ‘Twitter Summit’ is in sight. Effortlessly – time flies if you’re having fun!
‘A cliché is an expression, idea, or element of an artistic work which has been overused to the point of losing its original meaning or effect, rendering it a stereotype, especially when at some earlier time it was considered meaningful or novel. The term is frequently used in modern culture for an action or idea which is expected or predictable, based on a prior event. Used sparingly, they may succeed. However, cliché in writing or speech is generally considered a mark of inexperience or unoriginality. (Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia).
Although Laura Haden indicates, ‘avoid them like the plaque – they make for a great book title, but lousy writing…’ (suspense@suspense.net / http://suspense.net), for the purpose of this week’s blog, I have selected to focus on a few which I deem relevant given the tight assignment schedules the majority of students had to adhere to during the past two weeks.
1. ‘You can’t teach an old dog new tricks’
2. ‘Time flies when you're having fun’
On a personal level, I am in complete disagreement with the first cliché. Compared to the average age of students in the Social Media class, I can identify with the cliché, ‘You can’t teach an old dog new tricks’ – in this case the tricks of Twitter. Recent count indicated my current tweets of 600 is way above the required number of tweets as per end May 2011. I can also confidently confirm that another ‘mature student’ has already clocked up more than 700 tweets. Very impressive, and in complete contradiction with the afore-mentioned cliché.
I believe a more appropriate cliché would be ‘Time flies when you're having fun’. Because I am having so much fun and enjoying Twitter engagement with fellow students as well as following others, particularly in the rail-related industry, I’ve not realized that the number of tweets have significantly increased over a relatively short space of time.
In conclusion, whereas in February 2011 the expected number of tweets felt like ‘ Mount Twitter Everest, I believe that ‘Twitter Base Camps’ have been passed, and ‘Twitter Summit’ is in sight. Effortlessly – time flies if you’re having fun!
THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM
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‘The elephant in the room’ refers to an English metaphorical idiom for an obvious truth that is being ignored or goes unaddressed.
Often people choose to be in denial and/or push reality way back into their memory banks. It is often easier to ignore the truth than to face up to and deal with it.
I am no psychologist but I believe some people prefer to bottle up their feelings whilst others are more expressive - the latter cannot let things hang in the air - it must be cleared immediately.
For others, facing up to and acknowledging the truth might unleash a flood of accompanying emotions. Often these emotions might be too difficult to deal with – hence not addressing the ‘elephant in the room’.
A few examples where parents in particular, ignore or refuse to address the truth:
- Children playing truant at school
- Daughters leading the life as ‘taxi queens’
- Substance abuse by their children : dagga , heroin, methamphetamine, etc
- Children involved in bullying at school
- Daughters involved with ‘sugar daddies’
Often when confronted, parents would vehemently deny that their children are involved in any of the afore-mentioned. In most instances they would shoot it down as malicious rumours started by jealous family members and friends.
It has often been proven, that over time – the ‘rumours’ would eventually prove to be true and parents end up with egg on their face, together with the parental pain and anguish of losing their children to drugs, gangsterism, etc, - all because they refused to address the ‘elephant in the room’.
In conclusion, painful as it might be, as parents, is it not in one’s interest to equip oneself with knowledge and skills to be able to identify and deal with the ‘elephant in the room’?
‘The elephant in the room’ refers to an English metaphorical idiom for an obvious truth that is being ignored or goes unaddressed.
Often people choose to be in denial and/or push reality way back into their memory banks. It is often easier to ignore the truth than to face up to and deal with it.
I am no psychologist but I believe some people prefer to bottle up their feelings whilst others are more expressive - the latter cannot let things hang in the air - it must be cleared immediately.
For others, facing up to and acknowledging the truth might unleash a flood of accompanying emotions. Often these emotions might be too difficult to deal with – hence not addressing the ‘elephant in the room’.
A few examples where parents in particular, ignore or refuse to address the truth:
- Children playing truant at school
- Daughters leading the life as ‘taxi queens’
- Substance abuse by their children : dagga , heroin, methamphetamine, etc
- Children involved in bullying at school
- Daughters involved with ‘sugar daddies’
Often when confronted, parents would vehemently deny that their children are involved in any of the afore-mentioned. In most instances they would shoot it down as malicious rumours started by jealous family members and friends.
It has often been proven, that over time – the ‘rumours’ would eventually prove to be true and parents end up with egg on their face, together with the parental pain and anguish of losing their children to drugs, gangsterism, etc, - all because they refused to address the ‘elephant in the room’.
In conclusion, painful as it might be, as parents, is it not in one’s interest to equip oneself with knowledge and skills to be able to identify and deal with the ‘elephant in the room’?
FATHER’S DAY : DOWN MEMORY LANE
#SMED11
‘What makes a man a man is not the ability to have a child but to raise one’ – Barack Obama. This powerful quotation tweeted by myself on Father’s Day reminds me of my very influential father – Wilhelm de Wet.
Some of memories might be faded over the years, but in today’s blog I’d like to provide an insight into a person who was exceptionally intelligent, an avid reader, a student for life suffered and a person who developed Muscular Dystrophy and how it played a key role in our family life.
Having passed away 31 years ago, at the tender age of early fifties - exactly two month prior to my marriage, I believe losing a parent at such a young age not only robs oneself, but also the grandchildren from growing up without the nurturing, maturity, wisdom and guidance of a grandparent.
The legacy of my father and how he prepared his wife and children for an early death, is one of the memories that stands out for me:
- He accepted that his body would degenerate rapidly in his later life
- He knew and prepared his wife and children for an early death
- We were prepared: no hysterical outburst or crying tantrums at his funeral
- Burial within within three days of his death
- Wearing black (which then was perceived as a sign of being morbid and sorrowful)was to be avoided
I believe that my father’s illness formed the building blocks for assisting people in need – as children we would learn from my mother :
- Providing an outstretched arm to assist him up the steps
- Ensuring doors of the family vehicle are locked when he has to go out at night
- Ensuring that the scarf, coat and hat are always at hand
- Ensuring he received a healthy diet of cooked vegetables and steamed meat
- Ensuring his clothes are kept warm during the cold winter months
I would fail in my description if I do not mention that in addition to being well-known for baking jam-rolls, he was also well-known for his love of Kranskraal, the farm on which he was born - in the Beaufort-west region. It was common knowledge that the moment the school bell rang at the end of each term, my father would start up the vehicle and head in the direction of his beloved Kranskraal. Most importantly, in addition to the usual groceries, he would always take family members with him – thereby ensuring family members residing in Cape Town keep the memories of the once-family farm alive.
Not wanting to take anything away from his brother, sisters and in-laws, who have respectively continued to play role in the development of my own family life, on a personal note, I believe the greatest sadness of a death so young, is the opportunity missed to learn from and engage with such an extensive pool of knowledge and wisdom.
With Father’s Day serving as inspiration for today’s blog, I’d like to thank my late father for having the opportunity to know him for a limited period of twenty-plus years. Thank you for the discipline, values and work ethics instilled in me. As an avid reader and student for life, thank you for passing on that eagerness to constantly be on the path to gain knowledge. For health reasons beyond our control, our time shared together, was far too limited, but we cherish those wonderful memories of a wonderful father and husband to our late mother.
In conclusion, you’ve raised us well. We are Proudly Wilhelm de Wet’s children - I/we thank you!
‘What makes a man a man is not the ability to have a child but to raise one’ – Barack Obama. This powerful quotation tweeted by myself on Father’s Day reminds me of my very influential father – Wilhelm de Wet.
Some of memories might be faded over the years, but in today’s blog I’d like to provide an insight into a person who was exceptionally intelligent, an avid reader, a student for life suffered and a person who developed Muscular Dystrophy and how it played a key role in our family life.
Having passed away 31 years ago, at the tender age of early fifties - exactly two month prior to my marriage, I believe losing a parent at such a young age not only robs oneself, but also the grandchildren from growing up without the nurturing, maturity, wisdom and guidance of a grandparent.
The legacy of my father and how he prepared his wife and children for an early death, is one of the memories that stands out for me:
- He accepted that his body would degenerate rapidly in his later life
- He knew and prepared his wife and children for an early death
- We were prepared: no hysterical outburst or crying tantrums at his funeral
- Burial within within three days of his death
- Wearing black (which then was perceived as a sign of being morbid and sorrowful)was to be avoided
I believe that my father’s illness formed the building blocks for assisting people in need – as children we would learn from my mother :
- Providing an outstretched arm to assist him up the steps
- Ensuring doors of the family vehicle are locked when he has to go out at night
- Ensuring that the scarf, coat and hat are always at hand
- Ensuring he received a healthy diet of cooked vegetables and steamed meat
- Ensuring his clothes are kept warm during the cold winter months
I would fail in my description if I do not mention that in addition to being well-known for baking jam-rolls, he was also well-known for his love of Kranskraal, the farm on which he was born - in the Beaufort-west region. It was common knowledge that the moment the school bell rang at the end of each term, my father would start up the vehicle and head in the direction of his beloved Kranskraal. Most importantly, in addition to the usual groceries, he would always take family members with him – thereby ensuring family members residing in Cape Town keep the memories of the once-family farm alive.
Not wanting to take anything away from his brother, sisters and in-laws, who have respectively continued to play role in the development of my own family life, on a personal note, I believe the greatest sadness of a death so young, is the opportunity missed to learn from and engage with such an extensive pool of knowledge and wisdom.
With Father’s Day serving as inspiration for today’s blog, I’d like to thank my late father for having the opportunity to know him for a limited period of twenty-plus years. Thank you for the discipline, values and work ethics instilled in me. As an avid reader and student for life, thank you for passing on that eagerness to constantly be on the path to gain knowledge. For health reasons beyond our control, our time shared together, was far too limited, but we cherish those wonderful memories of a wonderful father and husband to our late mother.
In conclusion, you’ve raised us well. We are Proudly Wilhelm de Wet’s children - I/we thank you!
Sunday, May 15, 2011
FEELINGS FOLLOW BEHAVIOUR
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It is common knowledge that the way you feel has a direct impact on your behavior. On the other hand, your behavior is also influenced by your feelings. For the purpose of this week’s blog, I have randomly listed behaviours and the impact it has one’s own or the feelings of others:
BEHAVIOUR AND/OR ACTIONS AND THE IMPACT IT HAS ON FEELINGS
- Sticking to a diet and exercise programme: (Confidence)
- Buying flowers/jewelry or taking the one you love on a dinner date:
Love,appreciation, considerate, affectionate)
- Staying up long past bedtime to complete the assignment: (Overjoyed)
- Swearing and being rude towards a customer: (Disappointed / pleased)
- Telling lies to one’s loved one: (Ashamed)
- Over-indulging in food/alchohol: (Depression, guilt, shame)
- Spending too much time ‘with the boys’ :(Guilty, lousy)
- Meeting and getting married within i.e two weeks: (Impulsive)
- Always being on time, always being there for family and friends : (Reliable)
- Methamphetamine abuse by family member:(Helplessness, parental guilt, frustrated)
- Constantly trying to control/manipulate others : (Domineering)
- Saying whatever comes to mind/ not giving a hoot about other people’s
feelings : (Thoughtlessness, guilt)
- ‘Throwing one’s toys out of the cot’ : (Frustrated, fuming)
- Not follow reasonable requests/ instructions: (Frustration, anger)
- Youngsters participating in street drag racing: (Carelessness)
- Youngsters having unprotected sex : (Carelessness, guilty)
- Vehicle behavior : Car easily clocked 140-160km/h on the long stretch : (pride)
- Personnel experience: Son driving vehicle so that Mom can send out tweets :
(Thankful, appreciative)
On a personal note, I have always enjoyed mountain hiking. Not being the fittest in the group , my hiking excursions have mostly been laced with feelings that the mountain had to be ‘conquered’. However, a few years ago whilst participating in a ‘Spirit of the Wild’ mountain climbing programme, these feelings were challenged by a different approach to hiking.
Before setting out on the climb, the leader requested all group members to first request permission and guidance from Nature to enter her territory. Needless to say, after effortlessly reaching the overnight hut, my feelings subsequently changed from ‘conquering’ to admiration, warmth, and touched by Nature’s behaviour in granting us not only permission, but most importantly , giving us strength and endurance to enjoy nature’s splendor.
In the same way that attitudes and behaviours can be changed due to various factors and influences, so too can one's feelings change.
It is common knowledge that the way you feel has a direct impact on your behavior. On the other hand, your behavior is also influenced by your feelings. For the purpose of this week’s blog, I have randomly listed behaviours and the impact it has one’s own or the feelings of others:
BEHAVIOUR AND/OR ACTIONS AND THE IMPACT IT HAS ON FEELINGS
- Sticking to a diet and exercise programme: (Confidence)
- Buying flowers/jewelry or taking the one you love on a dinner date:
Love,appreciation, considerate, affectionate)
- Staying up long past bedtime to complete the assignment: (Overjoyed)
- Swearing and being rude towards a customer: (Disappointed / pleased)
- Telling lies to one’s loved one: (Ashamed)
- Over-indulging in food/alchohol: (Depression, guilt, shame)
- Spending too much time ‘with the boys’ :(Guilty, lousy)
- Meeting and getting married within i.e two weeks: (Impulsive)
- Always being on time, always being there for family and friends : (Reliable)
- Methamphetamine abuse by family member:(Helplessness, parental guilt, frustrated)
- Constantly trying to control/manipulate others : (Domineering)
- Saying whatever comes to mind/ not giving a hoot about other people’s
feelings : (Thoughtlessness, guilt)
- ‘Throwing one’s toys out of the cot’ : (Frustrated, fuming)
- Not follow reasonable requests/ instructions: (Frustration, anger)
- Youngsters participating in street drag racing: (Carelessness)
- Youngsters having unprotected sex : (Carelessness, guilty)
- Vehicle behavior : Car easily clocked 140-160km/h on the long stretch : (pride)
- Personnel experience: Son driving vehicle so that Mom can send out tweets :
(Thankful, appreciative)
On a personal note, I have always enjoyed mountain hiking. Not being the fittest in the group , my hiking excursions have mostly been laced with feelings that the mountain had to be ‘conquered’. However, a few years ago whilst participating in a ‘Spirit of the Wild’ mountain climbing programme, these feelings were challenged by a different approach to hiking.
Before setting out on the climb, the leader requested all group members to first request permission and guidance from Nature to enter her territory. Needless to say, after effortlessly reaching the overnight hut, my feelings subsequently changed from ‘conquering’ to admiration, warmth, and touched by Nature’s behaviour in granting us not only permission, but most importantly , giving us strength and endurance to enjoy nature’s splendor.
In the same way that attitudes and behaviours can be changed due to various factors and influences, so too can one's feelings change.
FUNERALS ARE GREAT FOR FAMILY NETWORKING
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Following the recent funeral of a family member, I came to realise that, as befitting the nature of such a sad event, feelings of sadness, bereavement and empathy are appropriately in abundance. On the other hand, particularly after the formal proceedings, the mood of congregants is more relaxed, and it is then that family and friends use the invitation to ‘join family of the lost one’ as a great social opportunity.
This is the time when people:
- catch up with family and friends not seen in ages;
- dish out compliments, i.e, ‘you’re looking good for your age’;
- catch up on latest information on who’s married, divorced and who’s
engaged;
- discuss and are usually suprised to hear and see how families have enlarged
over the years;
- check the weight management of others;
- find out and discuss who has had plastic surgery : boob jobs, liposuctions,
botox injections;
- evaluate skin texture and wrinkles that are for too severe in relation to
actual age;
- exchange telephone numbers, and increase followers on Facebook and Twitter;
- promise to stay in touch, meet up again and start arrangements for family
reunions.
It is also at funerals where one might meet up with one's first love or childhood sweetheart - there are many examples where a second or third marriage originated at funerals - particularly referring to when first loves are rekindled.
In conclusion, although a sad and dignified occasion, funerals can also be a great place to meet up and acquaint oneself with family neglected, and friendships of years gone by. In the circle of life, the Lord takes away, but the Lord also opens a window / opportunity for new friendships to blossom . Herein maybe lies the legacy of one’s death – new beginnings to friendship.
Following the recent funeral of a family member, I came to realise that, as befitting the nature of such a sad event, feelings of sadness, bereavement and empathy are appropriately in abundance. On the other hand, particularly after the formal proceedings, the mood of congregants is more relaxed, and it is then that family and friends use the invitation to ‘join family of the lost one’ as a great social opportunity.
This is the time when people:
- catch up with family and friends not seen in ages;
- dish out compliments, i.e, ‘you’re looking good for your age’;
- catch up on latest information on who’s married, divorced and who’s
engaged;
- discuss and are usually suprised to hear and see how families have enlarged
over the years;
- check the weight management of others;
- find out and discuss who has had plastic surgery : boob jobs, liposuctions,
botox injections;
- evaluate skin texture and wrinkles that are for too severe in relation to
actual age;
- exchange telephone numbers, and increase followers on Facebook and Twitter;
- promise to stay in touch, meet up again and start arrangements for family
reunions.
It is also at funerals where one might meet up with one's first love or childhood sweetheart - there are many examples where a second or third marriage originated at funerals - particularly referring to when first loves are rekindled.
In conclusion, although a sad and dignified occasion, funerals can also be a great place to meet up and acquaint oneself with family neglected, and friendships of years gone by. In the circle of life, the Lord takes away, but the Lord also opens a window / opportunity for new friendships to blossom . Herein maybe lies the legacy of one’s death – new beginnings to friendship.
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